Taken For Granted  

cuteNEway 41F
1774 posts
6/23/2006 2:17 pm

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7/27/2006 2:05 pm

Taken For Granted

If there is anything that can hurt more than words or even more than a physical blow to your body it's when you're taken for granted.

Imagine befriending someone. You feel a deep connection with this person. Not sexual yet. You can talk about anything. This person is your friend. A true friend.

Now imagine taking this friendship to the next level. You meet. You feel the chemistry. So you give yourself completely to this person. Now you've given everything. You know that you shouldn't. You know that any feelings you have would not be returned.

But you do because you're a silly human with silly human feelings and you can't help it. And subsequent events prove that you should have followed your original instincts.

This person hides things from you. Things that friends should never hide from eachother. This person lies to you. Something that friends should never do to eachother. This person then decides that they should hide some MORE things from you but TELL you that they're not saying because they aren't ready.

They aren't ready. HA!

So. They hide important things from you. They lie to you. They take you for granted. And THEY'RE not ready? That right there is almost unforgivable. If you find out from another party that makes it completely unforgivable.

Don't you think you deserve better after the way this person has hurt you?

NickRules999 39M
9462 posts
6/23/2006 5:21 pm

Story of my life.

Come into my realm! You aren't afraid...are you?

MissAnnThrope 56F
11488 posts
6/23/2006 5:29 pm

Want I should beat him up for you? I know I scare him.

jd29992z 54M
3888 posts
6/23/2006 7:12 pm

Yes you do that person is not a friend don't feel sad feel FREE!!!! Spread your wings and fly you don't need that person in your life. Later girl hope you feel batter soon JD

keithcancook 60M
17800 posts
6/23/2006 7:28 pm

Grief is often what we get.
When we choose to ply the net.

Take care when you extend your trust. Good Luck with it all!

Blog On!

digdug41 49M

6/24/2006 2:07 am

people are shady and they put out the facade of being friendly then they flip it on you dont sweat'em just keep flowin on an so on thats all plus your really too dute to let'em getcha down

roaming the cyber streets of blogland

imLadyBambi 58M/50F

6/24/2006 9:57 am


Been there and done that.Yes it does hurt but one day you will find your knight in shining armor.You just have to put up with some bullshit first.

Best of luck on your search!!

Drop by our (Team Bambi's) blog site,you might just get a laugh or two out of it.If ya visit please leave a comment so I'll know that you were there.Thanks.

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cuteNEway 41F

6/25/2006 4:03 am

Nick...Have you embraced your trust issues as well?
MissAnn...Please do!
Dys...Yes he is a coward. He needs to realize this before he loses more.
JD...I get what you mean and for the most part I am feeling better about this but its not easy to lose a friend.
Keith...the sad part is that some guys just know how to make you let that guard down!
Dig...not that simple baby!
LadyBambi...I've been waiting so damn LONG! It feels like it will never happen.
MzHuny...I'll tell em to come back but I can't ever trust this person again.

marywannado 43F

6/25/2006 10:24 am

You definately deserve better,, everyone eventually finds their soul mate...

PrincessKarma 43F
6188 posts
6/27/2006 9:11 pm


The Big Bang was the mother of all orgasms.PrincessKarma

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