PSYCHO ALERT!!!!!!!  

cuteNEway 41F
1774 posts
8/22/2006 2:49 pm

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9/4/2006 10:39 pm

PSYCHO ALERT!!!!!!!

This is the story of my first psycho fucktard from that other site everyone ridiculed me for going to. The guy seemed really sweet in his first message:

my name is {xxx} and i enjoyed your profile and would love to get to know you. i am not here to play games with you or treat you bad ,just to start as friends then take it from there, i would love the chance to spoil and pamper you. do you have a messenger we can chat on?

I checked out his profile and I liked what I read. He's not quite the guy I usually go for but I've been trying to go for different types lately because the usual types were not working out for me. So I gave him my IM handle.

He was the "ask me anything you want to know" type. Not a conversationalist. Kept saying, "What's with all the big words?"


{ALERT-------ALERT-------ALERT}


Somehow we got to talking about movies and music. We had this in common at least. There were some key things that were apparently important to him and he said, "That's it! Marry me!" I laughed it off and said, "LOL I do!" At this point I had to go put the kids to bed. The next day when we were on IM again he mentioned the marriage thing and I, again, laughingly said that I had said yes. He said, "But you didn't mean it" It was a joke! He said, "I was serious."

{ALERT-------ALERT-------ALERT}


So he popped in on IM a couple more times and it was the same thing again. Just a hello-how-are-you from him and me just waiting for him to say something. I can't be expected keep up a conversation all the time now, can I? I asked him why I should have to keep the conversation up all the time and he said, "Because you're smarter."

{ALERT-------ALERT-------ALERT}


In between all of this nonsense he would say some sexual things that just weren't fitting to the subject and were just all wrong because he was saying that he was looking for something long term and serious. The stuff he was saying was reminiscent of the AdultFriendFinder fucktards.

{ALERT-------ALERT-------ALERT}


Then he starts talking about moving me to Vegas with him. And my kids too. So I played along to see how he reacted. Told him if I ever did something like that I would have to have a job lined up and school for my son because he needs speech therapy and special schooling. He said, "That doesn't matter. You're not scaring me away."

{ALERT-------ALERT-------ALERT}


Again the conversation went silent. He never started the conversation and he never understood anything that I said because I used too many "big words". {insert eyeroll} Didn't talk to him til this afternoon. This is how the conversation went:

PSYCHO: hiya baby
ME: how are you
PSYCHO: missing you
ME: um ok
PSYCHO:
PSYCHO: sucks on ur neck
ME: uuhh
PSYCHO: huh?
ME: what are you doing
PSYCHO: whats it say ?
ME: um stop? please?
PSYCHO: ok
PSYCHO:
ME: frankly you're weirding me out here
PSYCHO: y?
ME: you haven't met me yet you "miss me"?
ME: the whole marriage thing?
ME: talking about sex like we know eachother that well?
ME: the one sided conversations?
PSYCHO: sex is good i wanna tap ur ass
ME: ok goodbye
PSYCHO: bye with ur retared kid
ME: that was just fucked up
ME: you don't bring my kids into this
ME: he is NOT retarded you asshole
PSYCHO: i was only gonna fuck u and leave u anyway
ME: he has a speech delay dick
ME: you're a fuckin psycho
PSYCHO: thats all ur spics are worth is fucking
ME: and you won't have this ever you guido jerk
PSYCHO: ur too fat for me too marry anyway
PSYCHO: and ur pussy prob smells
ME: you'll be lonely and miserable forever
ME: jerk
PSYCHO: nope i have some1 thats wants me spic


So because of this I have resolved that I will stick to my usual type. It's the same crapshoot whether the guy is my type or not.

Will I ever find a nice, semi well adjusted guy that won't lie to me or go psycho on me?



MissAnnThrope 56F
11488 posts
8/22/2006 3:30 pm

Rule 1: Never even start IMing with anyone who has to abbreviate three letter monosyllablic words.

God, what a complete fucktard. He got in the retarded, the racial slur and the smelly vagina. (Because we all know there's no such thing as a rancid smelly penis.) All he missed was calling you a lesbian. Oops. I mean dyke.

The bad news is, next week while masturbating to porn, he'll discover this site.


rm_aranayd 46M
2014 posts
8/22/2006 3:38 pm

Unfortunately, your situation doesn't sound all that uncommon. I've had some good talks with a couple of women on this site (yes, AdultFriendFinder) and have gotten the same, or a similar, story from each of them. Yours isn't even the worst I've heard about. One lady told me that a "normal sounding" guy suddenly started telling her: *insert horrid yokel-drawl here* "I just want to come over, do you in the butt, and leave." Needless to say, she was appalled. He had seemed so normal before that.

There are too many guys out there who make the rest of us look bad. I know it won't be easy to do, but keep trying. Eventually you'll find a few that have enough courage to admit who they really are and what they're truly after. We are out there.

(too many big words?)


druidrocker 62F

8/22/2006 4:59 pm

it's guys like him that keep me as "invisible" all the time - you don't get a response unless I want to talk to you - soo many good people here - it's just a matter of time and persistence - and a lot of luck


Transblucency 44M

8/22/2006 5:33 pm

Holy crap. Not to mention `son of a bitch'. I am struggling to find anything to say about this guy that's not utterly contemptuous, so I will say nothing more.


CliviCoderBruit 49M
11 posts
8/22/2006 5:34 pm

Sorry you had to deal with that waste of sperm. Talking to him must have been draining on your I.Q.. Hoping you have better luck

ALOHA


rm_imakemlaff 62M
595 posts
8/22/2006 5:55 pm

Somebody Open a window -this jerk is smelling up this site. He is probably used to his date not talking back because she has an inflatable personality. His favorite position is Man on top, Woman in magazine. What a shit for brains! Unfortunatly theres alot of jerks out there. To bad you didn't find one of the jerks, you found this guy!


NickRules999 39M
9462 posts
8/22/2006 6:31 pm

That is terrible!! That guy should have his balls cut off so he does not infect the rest of the world!

Reading this post made my eyebrows jump. And I used to pride myself on having nothing shock me anymore.

Come into my realm! You aren't afraid...are you?


AtomicArtist0 45M
6015 posts
8/22/2006 8:05 pm

hey transblucency, teach me to box, will ya? I think I'd might like to spend some face time alone in a back ally with this guy.


rm_CauseISaidSo 48F
182 posts
8/22/2006 8:34 pm

Awww poor widdle 14 year old got his tighty whities in a knot because NE wouldn't pop his pickled cherry..so tragic! As is the fact that he exists at all. UGH!


economickrisis 54M

8/22/2006 9:43 pm

Babe you must have a big sign on your back saying " Fucktards Apply". There has to be some way for you to have the happy accident that you deserve...like bumping into right guy when you least expect it.

Please excuse my use of your comment space for this....Dusty Widget, whatever you may think of him, has been wrongly accused in many blogs as the perpetrator of the 'cruel and heartless' cliticals scam.

But the bloke who writes economickrisis is the rotten evil scoundrel who created TheCliticals in order to take the piss out of Blogsville.


woofff 41F

8/23/2006 1:50 am

    Quoting economickrisis:
    Babe you must have a big sign on your back saying " Fucktards Apply". There has to be some way for you to have the happy accident that you deserve...like bumping into right guy when you least expect it.

    Please excuse my use of your comment space for this....Dusty Widget, whatever you may think of him, has been wrongly accused in many blogs as the perpetrator of the 'cruel and heartless' cliticals scam.

    But the bloke who writes economickrisis is the rotten evil scoundrel who created TheCliticals in order to take the piss out of Blogsville.
WTF???????


woofff 41F

8/23/2006 2:01 am

Dear CuteNEway

Sweetie why do these people come you way? Must figure that out,you. You're allowing some of what's wrong,to happen unconsciously. But your conscious self is unable to cope with the conflict so you blog
it out. I am not an expert....but I am a friend and I wish you so much happiness that it makes me sad you are without.

Woofff


cuteNEway 41F

8/23/2006 3:26 am

susie...not veering from my type ever again! same shit different appearance.

MissAnn...should I show his pic?? lol

aranayd...I don't get it! Whats with the abuse? I mean saving face is fine but the slurs and calling my kid retarded?

Looking...amen sista!

Druid...I sometimes wonder why I give my IM at all! I gotta talk longer thru the site email I guess.

Transblue...I think calling him "fuckin psycho" was nice of me. There are a lot more ugly things that woulda fit perfect!

Bihawaiian...his mommy shoulda swallowed. I lot 3 IQ points with this one!

imakeme...'man on top woman in magazine' that is too funny!! I think I'll use it.

Nicky...ugh now that you say that he DID ask me about having more kids and was greatly disappointed when I told him I don't want any more. *shudder* Imagine if we had gotten together? He'd probly force fuck me to get me pregnant *shudder*

Atomic...no honey you're too good for that. He doesn't deserve to be in your same hemisphere sweetie.

cause...It is disgusting. I see now wht no village has an idiot anymore! They're all on the dating sites!

economic...when I lose 150 lbs I'll have that "happy accident". Those happy accidents don't happen for women like me. Oh and you are always welcome here but PLEASE don't bring the drama du jour into my blog sweetie, mmkay?

spunky...I stupidly continue the chat stuff. But then I have actual friends in IM.

Woofff...Please don't disappoint me by saying this is somehow my fault! How the hell am I to know how someone is if I dont get to know them?? How is it my fault when all I want is to make friends and possibly meet someone? I cannot be blamed if people put on a facade and suddenly drop it and show their true ugly self!


free2chose2 66F

8/23/2006 3:17 pm

CuteN post a book on what not to look for in a guy lol

Don't worry, be Happy


rm_Smile_My_Way 59M
1519 posts
8/23/2006 5:29 pm

I'm sorry you had to go though this. What an idiot!


MissAnnThrope 56F
11488 posts
8/23/2006 10:11 pm

You know I'd post his pic. What a silly question.


kitchenfun1234 44M
1797 posts
8/24/2006 3:54 pm

Transblucency said it perfectly.
I never use chat rooms simply because I keep meeting people with no opinions, manners or written language skills.

Don't ever give up searching for the fun in life.


readytolay_3
(What the fuck is this shit..?? *rolls eyes*)
105F

8/24/2006 7:28 pm

Personally I'm looking for a lobotomized SuperMan....And in NO FUCKING WAY is this shit your fault...Ready

Ready


woofff 41F

8/24/2006 9:11 pm

    Quoting cuteNEway:
    susie...not veering from my type ever again! same shit different appearance.

    MissAnn...should I show his pic?? lol

    aranayd...I don't get it! Whats with the abuse? I mean saving face is fine but the slurs and calling my kid retarded?

    Looking...amen sista!

    Druid...I sometimes wonder why I give my IM at all! I gotta talk longer thru the site email I guess.

    Transblue...I think calling him "fuckin psycho" was nice of me. There are a lot more ugly things that woulda fit perfect!

    Bihawaiian...his mommy shoulda swallowed. I lot 3 IQ points with this one!

    imakeme...'man on top woman in magazine' that is too funny!! I think I'll use it.

    Nicky...ugh now that you say that he DID ask me about having more kids and was greatly disappointed when I told him I don't want any more. *shudder* Imagine if we had gotten together? He'd probly force fuck me to get me pregnant *shudder*

    Atomic...no honey you're too good for that. He doesn't deserve to be in your same hemisphere sweetie.

    cause...It is disgusting. I see now wht no village has an idiot anymore! They're all on the dating sites!

    economic...when I lose 150 lbs I'll have that "happy accident". Those happy accidents don't happen for women like me. Oh and you are always welcome here but PLEASE don't bring the drama du jour into my blog sweetie, mmkay?

    spunky...I stupidly continue the chat stuff. But then I have actual friends in IM.

    Woofff...Please don't disappoint me by saying this is somehow my fault! How the hell am I to know how someone is if I dont get to know them?? How is it my fault when all I want is to make friends and possibly meet someone? I cannot be blamed if people put on a facade and suddenly drop it and show their true ugly self!
It is not your fault at all. Ready is perfectly correct. I am saying
something else. I am saying that somewhere inside you - where you are vulnerable-you decided to believe the negative feedback you receive. It hurt your self-regard which is a natural defender of
the psyche. Net result: a partial victory for 'them' (assholes like this guy you wrote about).

Fight it! Fight their attitude with MORE attitude,girl(as you would put it!). Never quit that fight. As a woman some of are called upon to bring out extraordinary reserves to fight a prejudice. Women have been doing that for years.

I would never suggest you are at fault.Perhaps it sounded like that
because I started out with a wrong question. I am sorry.


Woofff


ella1966 50F
1528 posts
8/25/2006 2:05 am

Cute, I had a similar situation a few months back, when I lost touch of reality and let a local man penetrate my inner world and secret longings again, but it will never happen again, I think that was the second lesson that needed to be repeated for me to learn that you never trust what is said to you online or in email correspondences, as my husband loves to remind me, and quite correctly - words are cheap, they are dispensed with as much readiness as toilet paper, when you come to think of it. Also, this is why I avoid chat rooms and avoid IM'g with men who I have not gotten to know a bit about through the blogs first, but in a state of desperation, I have been there too. Just sad you had to experience this abuse, hon.


cuteNEway 41F

8/25/2006 4:14 am

free...do you think I'd make good money??

Dys...honey I have BEEN running and I'm exhausted!

Smile...no kiddin!

MissAnn...DUUHH ok stupid question lol

Kitchen...this was worse, this is a guy I let into my private IM

Ready...if you find him can you check if he has a twin that had the same procedure?

woofff...I see your point and I do need to get out of that mindset. But as you know if you're told something enough you start to believe it.

BadAngel...eventually. Hopefully soon!

ella...it's like I can't trust any man. Its quite frustrating.


CARGO52 64M
128 posts
8/25/2006 5:26 am

THIS IS A PERFECT EXAMPLE OF TOTAL ASSHOLE,THE TYPE WHO MAKE IT BAD FOR THE AVERAGE GOOD GUY TO CATCH A BREAK. THIS PUT YOU ON GUARD SO NOW YOU THINK 99%OF US ARE JUST LIKE HIM. GLAD TO SEE YOUR COMMON SENSE ALERT WARNING ARE WORKING......CARGO

Cargo 52


velvetgrrrl 39F

8/25/2006 10:12 pm

But as you know if you're told something enough you start to believe it.

You should never let anyone's opinion of you when they're not getting what they want, (Much in the behaviour of a spoiled three year old) ever sway you to form a negative opinion of you. You're such a beautiful person Cute I don't see how you attract these assholes. Especially racist fuckers at that. Girl I will happily be there for ya anytime....send me your number or something I'm sure we have lots of fantastic stories to swap about the trials and tribulations of dumbass men who think A F F is full of hookers and sluts!

`Velvet
Hell is when u should have walked away, but u didn't.


cuteNEway 41F

8/26/2006 5:13 am

cargo...I am a hardcore cynic. Now you know why.

velvet...I guess I have that stamp on my forehead only visible to assholes that says. Please Trample. I dunno! We should definitely exchange info! Ah the plots we would conjure buahhaahahaa!


stickynicky98 50M  
209 posts
8/26/2006 1:11 pm

Its pretty simple. The way he is he's NOBODY's TYPE and that's why he's so full of hate and spite. Be true, be strong and most of all BE YOURSELF and everything will fall into place!!!!
You go girl and the best of luck!


haversack_smith 40M
6192 posts
8/26/2006 4:22 pm

Dude needs conselling. Or a brain-transplant. You don't talk to women like that, even women who don't want to marry you.

P.S. Hi Cutey-pie. Wanna get hitched?


elmexicano_2k 46M

9/4/2006 9:54 pm

Good god Cute. Are there woman like this on AdultFriendFinder? I have met AdultFriendFinder women (wether in person or just chatting) and not one has been crazy like this.

I try not to be naive about the guys on AdultFriendFinder and their idotic attitudes/repsonses, but there are some the just defy all logic, like this idiot.

Wow.

BTW, I would choke his sorry racists ass over the internet for calling me a spic. I'd figure out some way to do it.

Butch: I'm American, honey. Our names don't mean shit.


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