I Am Not Looking For That  

cuteNEway 41F
1774 posts
8/8/2006 7:52 pm

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8/14/2006 4:11 am

I Am Not Looking For That

Many people have assumed that I am actively seeking a serious relationship. Why? Because I prefer a man I can talk to and hang out with outside the bedroom as well.

This qualifies as a friend with benefits. I do not seek an exclusive thing. I don't care who he fucks or sees as long as he uses protection.

Now if this FWB situation happens to develop beyond a casual thing, I am not opposed to it.

I have met quite a few men. Let's just say I am no stranger to the male species. I don't get attached. I never go into any kind of interaction expecting him to be "The One". What I DO expect is honesty.

I've been burned by a liar and led on by a player. Just so happens they were the only two that I did get attached to. And it just so happens that they were one right after the other. Their stories will each be chronicled in future posts.

One of them did not give me the chance to make an informed decision and the other led me to believe that we were building something deeper than a FWB situation.

I only let the thought of the possibility of these relationships going to a higher level enter my mind because of the way they spoke and acted. I am the type to suppress feelings unless the man shows something first.

Poker face Cute.

So again, I am not actively seeking a serious relationship but I am not closed to the idea. I just wish people could learn to tell the difference.

economickrisis 54M

8/8/2006 11:09 pm

Yeah righto. I agree with yer terms and conditions.

Real happiness is when ya wake up one day and realise that yer best friend is the best lover ya ever had.

haversack_smith 40M
6192 posts
8/9/2006 6:17 am

What, you mean you're not looking to run away with me to a desert island where we live off exotic fruits, wear clothes stiched from leaves and wood bark, and make love continually?


cuteNEway 41F

8/9/2006 7:11 am

econo...I don't know happiness then.

spunky...I'm not feeling too expressive lately hun, I'm sorry.

Dys...of course it is! With one, you actually care and need to know who the other is fucking and with the other to each his own when you're not together...

Smithy...oh honey I had no idea! I said I wasn't seeking it but no closed to the ideaWhen do we leave??

MissAnnThrope 56F
11488 posts
8/9/2006 12:09 pm

Gee cute, don't you know that a second date means it's time to pick out china patterns? At least, that's what most of the neanderthals think.

NickRules999 39M
9462 posts
8/9/2006 7:49 pm

I'm gonna post this on my profile:

If you plan on jerking me around, playing me like a fool, please let me know.

Come into my realm! You aren't afraid...are you?

(What the fuck is this shit..?? *rolls eyes*)

8/10/2006 7:32 am

Most people don't know what to do with REAL honesty....But take advantage of if...Ready


cuteNEway 41F

8/11/2006 1:04 am

MissAnn...I have 5 different registries in different price ranges for when I find "the one" that I (supposedly) so desperately seek.

Nicky...no matter what you say it don't help baby! Most people don't read profiles, it's sad.

BadAngel...I learned to be like this the hard way YEARS ago

Ready...all I've been is honest! These guys just dont know how to act in social situations...

cobra70118 105M

8/12/2006 11:09 pm

I feel the same way.

People don't read profiles is right and that includes woman. I get emails, winks but I know darn well they never really read my profile.

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