Whats a girl to do? I want a threesome with my hubby.  

curvyandfun 41F
80 posts
3/2/2005 10:11 pm

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Whats a girl to do? I want a threesome with my hubby.

Ok so my husband is very open and allows me to explore my sexuality freely. That is why I am on AdultFriendFinder. He is amazing in bed and keeps me satisfied but I am the type of person that needs variety to spice things up.
So here is the situation. He doesn't want to participate in a 3 some with me and girlfriends of mine...He is afraid it will complicate things. All very understandable and commendable but he is fine with sharing me with HIS male friends. He knows that would not be an issue. I just do not understand. I am grateful that I have such a decent husband but I'd really like to have this experience with him.
An even stranger twist is that when I have dated lesbians in the past he was fine with getting involved in a 3 some there...no contact between them obviously. I really enjoyed it.
I just think that I would love to share him with a beautiful sexy woman. I am going to have a 3-some with her and another man anyway...I just wish that it was him involved.
I sound like a crazy woman I know... He loves me and respects our relationship but so do I and I can still appreciate getting freaky once in a while. He doesnt think any less of me when I do it so whats his deal?


lost_boy74 42M

3/2/2005 11:07 pm

Let me start by saying you are a lucky woman to have a man that is willing to let you exlpore your sexuality.

Now, in the past you and he have had 3somes with lesbians, and he had no problems with that. Well, it may have to do with the fact that they WERE lesbians. You see, there is little chance that he would fall for one of them, and have hte feeling recipricated. However, if the woman/women you are trying to involve in a 3some with now are either bi or bi-curious the idea may change.

Maybe it's that he would like to see how you like having two guys instead, since you two have already done the two women thing.

Whatever his reason, don't push the issue. If it happens it happens, but it should seem as spontaneous as possilbe if any planning is involved.

Hope you get it figured out.


curvyandfun 41F

3/3/2005 12:53 am

Thanks for the advice. I am not making an issue of it. If he adores me and I am enough for him than who could ever complain about that. I am VERY lucky to have such an amazing husband for sure.
I think he is more concerned that I will be jealous after the fact...who knows. I am going to be grateful for what I have with him now and forever.


lookin4some1105 46M
31 posts
3/7/2005 3:39 pm

Curvy basically he is afraid of the age old problem that if he likes the 3some with you and the other girl. He might want to do it again. And if he does want to do it again he is concerned that it might create the "you want her more than me" effect.and he doesn't want that. You are very lucky that he cares that much about you. But you could tell him that part of what excites you about the 3 some is seeign another woman helping you in the satisfying of him. Or tell him you'll do one of his male friends IF he will join you in the 3 way with the other girl. Doesn't hurt to ask and let's face it, you guys obviously have open lines of communication...


fun69222 56M
1 post
3/9/2005 10:36 pm

i would love to .i'm a very good time...but the woman on this sit say that i'm to old or distance.
what's up .....


knonolimits69 52M
1 post
3/10/2005 7:34 pm

Hi Curvy,Yea,you have a great man,being open is the only way to be.Are you as open to him,he gives you no reason not to be.I would love to get toghther with you and one of your girlfriends
and visit Velvet Heaven,Venus to check out that lifestyle.Always wanted to go but I don't think they allow men alone,do they?I would feel like King Kong walking in with you!


Barbiebunny69 43F

4/2/2005 2:44 pm

Im bi and ure lovely!
Hopefully he can let you express your desires. lots of times men do not realize how loyal a woman is if she truly cares for him.

So u can play all u want with another woman, make her your live sex doll have fun, but he knows next morning its back to the way it was...The bi girls on this site truly enjoy encountere and do not man-swipe or woman swipe for that matter.
Jealous you? Ure amazingly beautiful~
Bunny


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