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curiousinlorain7 59F
15358 posts
8/13/2006 5:03 am

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You know there are a few reasons why I like to blog... one.. i grew up in Northern Minnesota... and it rhymes with logging...
two.. I'm a frustrated writer... I have all these sometimes great sometimes fanciful thoughts running around in my head all the time. It gives me a nice release... allowing me to hold on to that tiny fragile thread to sanity one more day.
but thirdly.. and I think for the most part.. this is a big reason for me... I like...nay love... to flirt. I just really do. I don't really think of it as flirting in my mind...at the time. ( but my daughter calls me out on it all the time) When I was married... I felt free to flirt.. in real life.. because everyone knew i was married and not coming on to them.. but being re-single? It's hard to flirt with anyone over 23 and have them think... geez what's this fat old broad thinking? ya.. you see... where as i love to flirt.. or compliment...or seriously become genuinely interested in someone's opinions or pain or life story.. whatever the case may be... most men look at the outside package and just think to themselves...( and occasionally out loud spoken it to me) " man she is way out of her league talking to me" So I come here to the blogs to flirt.. and I can Sometimes I do flirt in ernest.. but only I know when that is so.. do you flirt in 'real life'? if not what stops YOU from flirting in real life?


goodatpoetry2 67M
13174 posts
8/13/2006 5:56 am

I only do with people I know. They know I'm only kidding.
With strangers, I'm not so bold.
But on HERE.......
Come over here, Baby. I've got just what you need! LOL!


curiousinlorain7 59F

8/13/2006 6:46 am

    Quoting goodatpoetry2:
    I only do with people I know. They know I'm only kidding.
    With strangers, I'm not so bold.
    But on HERE.......
    Come over here, Baby. I've got just what you need! LOL!
LOL... now THAT'S what I'm talking ( or typing) about!!!


rm_smosmof2 67M
3240 posts
8/13/2006 8:26 am

That was what last weekend's education was all about for me....learning to deal with people face-to-face again....

I tend to be introverted--some retraining is in order... (and underway, I think.....)


lovemetouchme5 51F
2102 posts
8/13/2006 9:43 am

I seem to be able to flirt on here quite easily. In real life I can flirt with strangers, but mostly only do it with people that I know. I know what you mean about people looking at you and saying, "what the hell is she thinking!" Loveme...

PS...Only 55 more days until the roadtrip!!!


meinment 54M

8/13/2006 10:42 am

Hi gorgeous! I'm over 23 and you may flirt with me ANYTIME you wish!


curiousinlorain7 59F

8/13/2006 10:45 am

    Quoting rm_smosmof2:
    That was what last weekend's education was all about for me....learning to deal with people face-to-face again....

    I tend to be introverted--some retraining is in order... (and underway, I think.....)
training can be difficult...especially when we are training to grow outside our own skin..or comfort-zone... I'll be excited to see the process

did you learn anything else last weekend


florallei 99F

8/13/2006 10:48 am

Hello Sweetie,

OMG Sista' me older sibling of the female kind have told me since I was a wee youngan' of 3 yars' olde she said I was a flirtin' awready...My inner spirit has been very friendly and loving and it was stifled and nearly destroyed when I was married.
My ex was an extremely jealous dude who would pummel me if I ever did anything remotely close to looking or smiling at a man.
It all came back after my divorce ever so slowly.
Think of babies Hun...when you talk with them don't they cooo, smile and flirt already...our true nature...
Somewhere along the way...it gets misconstrude as sexual or interest to a deeper level when we are just being friendly NO?
Great topic ya' bloodie hussy of a flirt winking at ya'
Luv,
flo


LustyTaurus 48M  
21253 posts
8/13/2006 11:25 am

I flirt when I don't wanna flirt!!...I can't help it...

Waitresses, female cops, co-workers, employees, cousins...they're all fair game!!

Seriously, I tend to be an open and friendly guy in RL...and often it comes off as flirting...maybe it is...but many times I'm just interested or entertaining myself or curious.


curiousinlorain7 59F

8/13/2006 1:13 pm

    Quoting lovemetouchme5:
    I seem to be able to flirt on here quite easily. In real life I can flirt with strangers, but mostly only do it with people that I know. I know what you mean about people looking at you and saying, "what the hell is she thinking!" Loveme...

    PS...Only 55 more days until the roadtrip!!!
woohoo


curiousinlorain7 59F

8/13/2006 1:15 pm

    Quoting meinment:
    Hi gorgeous! I'm over 23 and you may flirt with me ANYTIME you wish!
hello mien..welcome to my blog and thank you flirt flirt


curiousinlorain7 59F

8/13/2006 1:17 pm

    Quoting LustyTaurus:
    I flirt when I don't wanna flirt!!...I can't help it...

    Waitresses, female cops, co-workers, employees, cousins...they're all fair game!!

    Seriously, I tend to be an open and friendly guy in RL...and often it comes off as flirting...maybe it is...but many times I'm just interested or entertaining myself or curious.


ya that's it... i'm 'friendly'


curiousinlorain7 59F

8/13/2006 1:18 pm

    Quoting florallei:
    Hello Sweetie,

    OMG Sista' me older sibling of the female kind have told me since I was a wee youngan' of 3 yars' olde she said I was a flirtin' awready...My inner spirit has been very friendly and loving and it was stifled and nearly destroyed when I was married.
    My ex was an extremely jealous dude who would pummel me if I ever did anything remotely close to looking or smiling at a man.
    It all came back after my divorce ever so slowly.
    Think of babies Hun...when you talk with them don't they cooo, smile and flirt already...our true nature...
    Somewhere along the way...it gets misconstrude as sexual or interest to a deeper level when we are just being friendly NO?
    Great topic ya' bloodie hussy of a flirt winking at ya'
    Luv,
    flo
hmm older sibling?? must a been me then right
and umm my son could flirt from that young age too


curiousinlorain7 59F

8/13/2006 1:20 pm

    Quoting DustyWidget:
    I'm a frustrated writer

    No you are a writer!!

    And I do know when you're flirting!
aw ty dusty and am i flirting now


curiousinlorain7 59F

8/13/2006 5:41 pm

aww spunky you just keep up the flirting here


curiousinlorain7 59F

8/13/2006 5:42 pm

    Quoting rm_silkditty:
    I flirt all the time, it's so much fun

    I've got a dirty mind, love double entendre and love guys who like sexy banter, it's all just play and a good time, not serious
it is fun isn't it welcome to my blog


rm_Smile_My_Way 59M
1519 posts
8/13/2006 6:32 pm

I flirt all the time and love doing it. I guess it's like you say people know you are married and don't take it seriously. I never thought of it that way.


curiousinlorain7 59F

8/13/2006 7:20 pm

    Quoting rm_Smile_My_Way:
    I flirt all the time and love doing it. I guess it's like you say people know you are married and don't take it seriously. I never thought of it that way.
i take you seriously


skyking412004 53M
5363 posts
8/14/2006 2:45 am

_____You've had guys tell you that you were out of your league talking to them? That's disgusting! Kind of makes me wish that you had the power to rip their heads off with their spines still attached. Some of the "beautiful people" are a serious waste of oxygen that a better person could be using.


curiousinlorain7 59F

8/14/2006 3:12 am

    Quoting skyking412004:
    _____You've had guys tell you that you were out of your league talking to them? That's disgusting! Kind of makes me wish that you had the power to rip their heads off with their spines still attached. Some of the "beautiful people" are a serious waste of oxygen that a better person could be using.
Just so you know...it hasn't even been the 'beautiful people' that have said that or similar to me


curiousinlorain7 59F

8/14/2006 3:13 am

    Quoting rm_mzhunyhole:
    I'm a big flirt..love to meet and talk to anyone.
awww... mzhuny... that does not surprise me... I bow to the master of the art of the flirt


LookandWink 63M

8/16/2006 12:34 pm

Hi, is this flirt anonymous?? I am a shameless flirt! LOL!

Do I flirt in real life? ... (just look at my handle!)

Ok ... Yes, I do like to flirt. I do it because it's fun and because I know that nobody will take me seriously. I sometimes will see a friendly looking woman walking towards me in a busy mall. When she is just feet away from me and looking toward me, I will get her attention and wink at her. I then just walk on without saying a word or looking back.
Why?
- Because it's fun
- She might get a laugh out of it
- Maybe give her a little boost in self esteem.

I like to make people smile ... that's my purpose in life!


LookandWink 63M

8/16/2006 12:36 pm

and by the way ... You are a very sexy lady!!! Wink-wink!!


curiousinlorain7 59F

8/16/2006 4:43 pm


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