Closet exhibitionist?  

curiouscplinNS 39M/37F
18 posts
7/5/2005 7:30 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Closet exhibitionist?

My balcony has a view that involves seeing right into the windows of the restaurant next door. This means I can't tan in the nude without all of the diners seeing me. I'm not sure if this makes me nervous or turns me on. I'd never have the guts to do it, I know that, but sitting here thinking about what some people would be thinking if they were watching me turns me on. I know there would be some who would be horrified, probably complain to the restaurant manager. But would there be some men or women, who would sit silently, not point me out to their partner, so that they could watch me? Would they be secretly wanting me?
Sometimes my bf and I have sex on the couch in the living room without closing the curtains. He likes to lean me over the arm rest and fuck me from behind. You really can't see into the apartment that far, but sometimes I like to imagine you can. Could I be a closet exhibitionist? Is there such a thing?


xxkaylouxx 31F
4 posts
7/5/2005 9:45 am

Im not too sure, i think maybe there is,but then maybe its teasing, the public, and yourself?? I like to walk past my window naked sometimes too, feels naughty and fun.


HandyMan4Orgasms 56
80 posts
7/5/2005 9:52 am

Yes and Yes. Can I watch?


Zaphed905 55M

7/5/2005 9:59 am

Do you get sort of excited by people looking at the photos in your profile? I was surprised to find that I did. It took me a while to figure it out. So I guess my answer is "yes, there is such a thing."

I recently took on a project that gives me a temporary office on the sixth floor of a building surrounded by upscale condos. To me, it was surprising how many people sunbathe on thier balconies in the city, regardless of who may be looking. Of course, in Europe, that's just ordinary. I do it at home out in the countryside. Theoretically one or two neighbors could see me, but they would need a pretty good pair of binoculars to see that I was naked.

One more story: Some friends of mine used to rent an apartment in part of an old victorian house. Their neighbor hung out a sign and started offering massages. Unknown to them, a couple of the customers got turned around and saw them through the window 69'ing on their own couch. (I think they had lace curtains.) Thinking it was "that kind" of massage parlor, they called the cops down on the neighbor!


scoother69 106M
5 posts
7/5/2005 10:06 am

Hi curious (&bf),
I think you have answered your own question. If you are turned on or excited about someone watching you then you are an exhibitionist don't you think? A practicing one??? Try it out for real and if you catch someone watching you, then I think your feelings will definitely be confirmed. I know if I was watching you then I would surely be curious and turned on enough to want to join you, with invitation only of course. I don't think I would do it in front of a restaurant full of people though. I think the crowd would be too varied and surely there would be a "church lady" in the crowd who would find it offensive (but her husband probably wouldn't). As far as the closet....you only allow yourself what you are ready for....are you ready for the next step?
Do you like to watch other people? I know I like to watch and be watched. We were in Monterey, CA for a vacation staying at this little house by a park. It was in the evening, dark outside, and we had finished dinner a little earlier and cleaned up. We went back into the dinning room and began to talk which developed into some fantastic foreplay. I think it was extra heated because of the open windows and curtains that we were both aware of. From where we were sitting you could see directly into the dining room through the living room. I placed her on the table and gave her the most excuisite oral sex. I think her clit was larger than it had ever been. She was so wet and fully aware of the possibility that someone or some other people could have been watching us. We finished with some slow and deep penetration into one very wet and hot pussy. She was loving it and so was I!

Last night we were out buying some accessories for our new phones and the sales person was a nice looking guy. As we were talking I noticed my wifes top was hanging really low as she was leaning over the counter. She hadn't worn a bra because it was so hot. I began to notice this and the salesman was noticing this too. I was turned on by the fact that my wife's breast were getting viewed by a complete stranger. I think he could see the whole breast, nipple and all since he had a better view than I did. That was a turn on! I talked to her about it later and she said she wasn't aware of it. Now, you tell me, is a woman aware of when her breast are exposed or not! The real question is, was the show for me or him, or both???


adventurs4U 77M
1 post
7/5/2005 11:03 am

You may be a closet exhibitionist, but the world would be happy if you came of the closet. Your picture is ...."varrooommm" ..but the restuarant next door might not like if it the drooling men started making their place a mess.


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