You wonder why?  

curiouschrissy 37M/32F
58 posts
8/29/2005 2:13 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

You wonder why?

Okay, I guess it's about time I posted something on this site. It's me, Brandon. Yes, the boyfriend of the girl that you're probably eyeing up right now. I'm starting to get a tiny bit irritated at most of (not all, mind you) the people on this site. Look, I know this site is all about the freaky shit. Sex, porn, and all that "fun" stuff. But why is it completely impossible for people to be respectful. I'm sure there are some decent men out there that simply want to compliment my girl and nothing more, but, I'm sorry, every other asshole on here has ruined it for all of you. At least, all the men. So if you send her a message and she's rude to you, then simply understand she wants nothing to do with any men. You see her in chat and give her a compliment, fine. I'm sure she'll get a slight ego boost. But that doesn't mean she's going to join your network or "stay in touch". And compliment after compliment after compliment is gonna get you nowhere except blocked. Kinda gives away your intentions, moron. You already get to see more of my girl than most have just from the pix on the profile. So stop asking to see her tits, pussy or anything else that might pop into your little fucking head (and i'm not talking about the one above your shoulders). Women are more than welcome to see every inch of her that she wants you to. Couples, please understand that it's next to impossible to prove that you're the WOMAN and not the MAN chatting, so unless you have a cam to prove it or want to meet us, don't bother. And, last but not least, what part of "nobody over the age of 30" don't you people understand? I'm sure you look great for your age and still feel young and sexy...but that doesn't mean a damn thing to her. She is 21 and would feel creeped out to be with someone close to her PARENTS' age. Please post all the replies that you want on this blog, everybody is entitled to their opinion...just don't expect us to give a shit.

rose4jinx 33F
1 post
9/15/2005 11:36 am

Finally! Words put to some of my same thoughts! Thank to both of you for posting your last two blogs.

curiouschrissy 37M/32F

9/15/2005 2:20 pm

And THANK YOU for putting your feelings down about the blog. I think like 90 people have read it so far, but not a single one has posted a comment until you. Gee, I wonder if 89 of the people that read it were men, ya think?

rm_sexywogger 38M
1 post
10/4/2005 8:52 pm

Saw her on webcam, she's stunning... you're a lucky couple... =o)

rm_humpin4u 47M/44F
1 post
10/7/2005 6:47 am

You are a very lucky man to have such a lovely and experimental wife. My wife thought she was a cutie also. I mean no disrespect, just wish you two luck in your search. Chrissy, you are a lovely lady.

licksuckfucku2 57M

10/7/2005 6:53 am

I normally don't post to these but my first experence with this woman drove me to do so. I watched her Cam for a while then sent her a short meaasage saying "Your Cute but you look too serious" Well that brought on the Real person inside her. She's a Nasty,No Manners No Class, Fuckin Bitch !!! I feel sorry for the B/F and anyone else who comes in contact with her.
If you ever see her run away as fast as you can, because she'll rip your balls off,she needs a set of her own so that she can be "THE MAN" !!

curiouschrissy 37M/32F

10/7/2005 2:43 pm

licksuckfuckblahblahblah - This is the "B/F" that you feel so sorry for. Trust me when I tell you, you should be feeling sorry for yourself and not me. My life has improved from being with this "bitch" more than you could ever know. I'm half your age and I'm enjoying my life, not searching for one. From what she tells me about her "webcam chats" it's no surprise she was nasty and mean to you, especially with the kind of shit she deals with from all the other guys that tell her to "put on a show". If you think someone looks a certain way that doesn't please you, then keep your fucking mouth shut! I'm a "say what I mean and mean what I say" kind of guy also, but I know what TACT is. We aren't here to make you happy in any way shape or form. You can think whatever you like about her or me, we really don't give a shit. And, in case you didn't notice, not many other people agree with you. There's plenty of men and women that she chats with because they are friendly and not expecting something from her. Whether it be a show or a specific attitude. You're 46 and viewing a webcam of a 21 year old. Buy a fucking porn video if that's what you want. Have a nice mid-life crisis, Stubby.

luckyno361a 48M/45F

10/15/2005 5:04 am

Sometimes it seems that some people just don't understand ,unless you are rude to them,we get alot of guys that want to be in our network,they are standard members,no pics in their network and 99.9% full of shit.When I (the female half) go into the chat rooms,I'm not looking to get laid,just to chat with people having the same interests as mine.Thanks Brandon,for sharing what alot of women/couples are feeling.Liz

rm_109power 39M

11/1/2005 7:00 am

Wow, to both halves of curiouschrissy, can't argue and its a shame, there are many people who spoil it for the rest of us. Some of us are just after harmless fun like yourselves, chin up not all us blokes are bad . Just forget or block the bothersome ones, and enjoy.
P.S. you are a lucky sod , what a lovely better half .

newbie4bi 50M
1 post
11/15/2005 6:28 am

just watching some cams and came across yours and looked at profile and then read blogs. like most men I think about sex a lot, so please forgive me when I see an attractive couple who is on this sight and have sex thoughts. With 18 million members you have to expect to get fucked up emails/responses etc., need to realize that its not personal. Stay positive, delete the rude people and get what you want in the end.

curiouschrissy 37M/32F

11/15/2005 3:01 pm

Newbie4bi - We do realize we're going to get fucked up contacts, etc. And, also being a guy, I think about sex pretty often as well. But I also respect others' rights to do with their time as they see fit. Do I look at other women's profiles that I find attractive? Damn straight, I do. But do I then email them and bug them to add me to their network or show me their tits or whatever? Of course I don't! And especially the women that are not interested in men at all, I whole-heartedly respect that and immediately close their profile or pass the information on to Chrissy in case she's interested in a particular hottie that I don't have a chance with. I understand that you're simply voicing your opinion, and you do a MUCH better job at it than most men on this site, but please don't stand up for the assholes that believe they deserve something they don' only gives them more of an excuse.

Thanx for the post!

a_md_army_guy 44M

11/18/2005 10:54 am

I have been chatting with Chrissy for a few months now and think she is just a doll. Very honest and friendly and fun to chat with. I hope she realizes that some of us guys enjoy chatting with her and are not here to be jerks. Talk to you later!!

TheDante17603 36M

11/20/2005 5:20 am

Hi guys, I just ran across this blog and wanted to comment. I am not in anyone's network and if I am, I wouldn't know. But you guys are right on, most men on here are complete morons, and don't get it. They can't understand why girls aren't interested when push too hard, or when they look like a train wreck.

So to the both of you I just want to say, hope the a-holes leave you alone and you can find some people to have some fun with that are our age, lol.

curiouschrissy 37M/32F

11/20/2005 11:10 am

Thank you both for the positive postings...I know how much Chrissy enjoys chatting on AdultFriendFinder. Even with guys. And that doesn't bother me in the least. It's the ones that want more than just chatting that irk me. She turns on the cam and broadcasts simply so people KNOW it's really her, unlike most of the fakes out there. I would luv for all of the pricks on this site to suddenly wake up and realize they don't have a chance, but that's nothing more than a dream...

B_C_Together 42M/36F

12/17/2005 1:28 pm


pleasureyourclit 66M
836 posts
12/20/2005 2:39 pm

I have to agree.. I'm a big flirt so if i see a nice smile or lovely eyes chances are the will get a comment young or old it's doesn't matter but at the same time you have respect what the are looking for so a compliment is one thing but other shit isn't.

I have come to realize after talking to fwe lovly ladies on this site
regularly most men must think with their small head and not the one on their shoulders.. it's too bad because we could have a little fun if we all would just respect each other!

Brandon and Chrissy don't give up their are some cool folks on this site .... Merry christmas to you both!

hotchick2424 39M/36F

1/12/2006 10:55 pm

This chick has to be one of the coolest I have encountered on this site yet!! Very kind and pretty too. We haven't met face to face yet but...hopefully this weekend!!!!!! Thanks for being who you say you are and I look forward to meeting you J.

luvstolickgirlz 49M

1/25/2006 9:15 pm

Same old...same old.... give it a break!
The problem with this site is too many people takes themsleves and others to damn seriously....18 million people.... your gonna find some fuck ups. Enough is enough with the dissapointed attitude.... as you go through life and grow up... expect most people to dissapoint you. As for the b/f's never ending "respect" for women...good for you...we all heard it the first time. Don't break your arm patting yourself on the back...there are lots of good guys out there...not just you my friend!

I not trying to be a prick... I am just a realist. Age will do that to you.

On other thing....with 18 million people on thsi site... I am sure there are just as many creepy chicks, couples, TV/CD and the lets give the guy bashing a break people!!!!!

curiouschrissy 37M/32F

1/26/2006 3:45 am

From the attitude from your posting, you are being a PRICK. If you really think I'm patting myself on the back for being a "nice guy", you go right on thinking that. I simply expressed my opinion and if it happens to include my points on why women don't need middle-aged men gawking at them and throwing comments then so be it. And if age turns me into a "realist" like you, then I plan on killing myself before I ever get to that point.

Have a nice mid-life crisis with your gerbil.

The "egotistical" boyfriend

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