Oh no, he's off again!  

curious200203 53M
46 posts
8/12/2005 5:09 pm

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8/10/2008 3:06 am

Oh no, he's off again!

I know it's been a while since I posted but I wasn't meaning to add another post tonight, it's just that something provoked me, you know how it is. There you are, in equilibrium in your whatever shade of 'happy' it is life, and then something knocks you out of balance. And here I am again.

What's got me going this time is someone's profile, where they say the man...yes ladies, it was one of you...that they're looking for must, and I quote, 'dress well'.

Now I'm not unsympathetic. The best present can be improved by being nicely wrapped. And don't think that I slob around in jeans with the arse hanging out myself and I'm going to say that's fine because I don't and it isn't. What's at issue is someone using how someone dresses as a criterion to choose who they're likely to get on with in bed.

In bed, where you aren't wearing anything much. See why this is bugging me?

There's a false logic going on here, the kind that says that if someone dresses smartly at all times they're more likely to be a kind and considerate lover, to give me satisfaction, and frankly it's all bollocks. Someone that takes prissy care about there appearance is never likely to abandon themselves to the moment and give you the wild, animal passion you crave...that is, if the kind of woman that says they would like a man that 'dresses well' would ever condescend to wild, animal passion. Personally, I think it's an evolutionary thing...I want a man that dresses well because he's likely to be a good father to my children, even though they're most likely to have actually been fathered by someone else. He may dress well but he's safe and unchallenging and if I want a good seeing to I can always go down the rugby club when he's away...hypocritical, isn't it?

Unless, of course, you're ditchwater dull. But in that case, why are you here?


rm_cutechubby8 46F
3428 posts
8/4/2006 5:26 am

hey we're not all that shallow - personally I like a more rough and ready guy, one who knows how to please rather than some prissy preppy guy who looks good be is too wrapped up in his world and his needs. Still enough rambling - I like someone who is up for a challenge!

amd1160 58F

8/10/2008 2:37 am

I'm attracted to guys who are well dressed, clean and tidy, as that gives me an indication that they take care of other areas of life - I see a dirty unshaven slob as one who is very likely to be blissfully unaware of deodorant or belly button fluff, and frankly, THAT is a real turn off!

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