What does it mean?  

curioscatgirl 38F
35 posts
10/20/2005 2:13 pm

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What does it mean?

What does it mean when I have fantasies about other women? Does this mean that I am bisexual....maybe even lesbian? I don't really know.
I haven't had any lesbian experiences....ever. I did try to kiss a girlfriend of mine when we were both drinking. She didn't take it very well...actually not at all and we haven't been the same since. I don't find men nearly as attractive as I ever did before. I actually seem to be more bored with them than anything else. My question is......

Am I too focused on my fantasy that I don't see reality? Should I just give up on my desires to be with another woman and go back to men or should I wait it out?

I look forward to hearing from Blogland. And please.....write something if you read this. So many visitors with no comment. What gives???
XO
Cat


luvsxoxo 43F

10/20/2005 3:01 pm

I would say that you are curious and there is nothing wrong with that...You will have some of your questions answered when you have your first experience...I am bi-sexual myself I love both....

Good luck!

Luvs~~


aliciakaela 33F

10/20/2005 3:40 pm

Every girl at one point or another has a fantasy of being wiht another girl whether or not they want to admit it. There is nothing wrong with fantasizing about girls. I like boys and i fantasize about being with girls. This does not mean you are a lesbian or bi sexual. it is a natural phase. Go and have a try at a female to really understand how u r feeling. but make sure the female knows that u want to experiment; dont just surprise her with it.
aliciakaela


HeavenLynn694u 53F

10/20/2005 3:45 pm

I am also bi-sexual.But I CAN tell you that before I had my first sexual encounter with another woman? I too realized I had sexual feelings for women?..The picture you have up by your blog represents the thoughts that used to run through my mind CONSTANTLY! ANd until I finally fullfilled my desire to be with a woman sexually?The thoughts your having didn't stop for me?....It'll stop after you have your first sexual encounter with another woman.Mine did?......Lynn


chammypie 54F
22 posts
10/20/2005 4:07 pm

I UNDERSTAND YOU COMPLETELY. i GET REALLY TURNED ON WATCHING WOMEN TOGETHER ON FILM BUT I COULD NEVER EVER HAVE SEX WITH ONE OF MY FEMALE FRIENDS. ALL MY MALE ENCOUNTERS WANT A 3WAY BUT MY REPLY IS ALWAYS FIND US ANOTHER WOMEN THEN. AND MY PROBLEM IS THAT I'M CHUBBY, BUT I DO WORK OUT, AND UNLIKE ALL THESE MEN I MANAGE TO PULL WITH EASE, I COULDN'T FANCY A FAT GIRL, SO WHERE DO I GO??? AS FOR YOU JUST GETTING BORED ITHINK THAT'S WHAT IT IS. MY SOLUTION TO THAT IS THAT OVER THE LAST FEW WEEKS, I'VE ACTUALLY HAD A SHORT CONVERSATION WITH MY LOVERS, I THINK IT'S A BIG STEP FORWARD FOR ME. BUT IT'S TRUE, GIRLS JUST SEEM TO LISTEN AND BE MORE UNDERSTANDING, BUT BE VERY CAREFUL BECAUSE THEY CAN BE A LOT MORE JEALOUS.


KMA5 40M
771 posts
10/20/2005 4:11 pm

You are curious and with good reason; have you looked in the mirror lately? Women are fabulous! This fantasy of yours isn't a definite sign that you have to swear off men. You just have passionate focus. Try not to let it lead your life and someday your fantasy wil be fulfilled


Lextyranus7 56M

10/20/2005 4:11 pm

Cat:

The mystery of your fantasies are a vary powerful drug. Some may say its a varient of the endorphines we all feel in sex, but the point remains, that until you fulfill your fantasies you will stay addicted to the desires. Caveat Emptor. It may be all that you seek,, or not.

Go with your heart and remember your only responsible in life for the effort not always the result.


OnMyKnees05 42F

10/20/2005 4:26 pm

U r very curious and u will have many of ur 'answers' when u fullfill that fantasy. I'm a greedy bitch so I luv a man AND a woman BOTH. Cum 2 the BI-side, it's REAL NICE HERE! lol.. Our chances of gettin laid DOUBLE! lol...


rm_cntrygrl559 34F
34 posts
10/20/2005 5:00 pm

I have recently....(actually its 6 months today!)..come to realize that being bisexual is a very good thing. I like yourself had thoughts about perhaps being with a woman. As it turned out my best friend was around when i got burned pretty hard by my ex and it ended up making our relationship even stronger. 6 months ago she and i started discussing things...and come to find out i wasnt the only one who thought about tryin stuff. She had wanted to kiss me for 5 years without me knowing it. Now...6 months later this is turning out to be my longest relationship thus far...and NO just becuase we are together does not mean we are lesbians...because no matter what they say...toys are great but there is just something about the real thing....well that a bjs lol
I hope you figure out what is right for you becuase each person is different. Good luck and may god bless you with much happyness on your road to discovery.


alicethorne 40F

10/20/2005 5:01 pm

Hi cat! Well i need to tell you that i've been trying to contact you for some time. I work full time and i have had trouble getting you online. The girls are out here looking for you and nothing is standing in your way. Meeting people online can be difficult, not knowing exactly who you are meeting and what their backgrounds are and if they are genuine. I've finally had the experience of meeting and carrying out an encounter with someone i've met online and I was NOT disappointed. We had and continue to hook up with eachother and have a great time....feeling more comfortable each time. I would love to meet you cat girl. There is a convention that i (along with a friend) will be heading to in Wolfville for the 29th. Would love to find a way to meet you...have a coffee..whatever you are comfortable with. My email is AdultFriendFinder Drop me a line, add me to your contacts, i would love to chat!
Take care curious girl! Hope to hear from you soon!


rm_halifax 68M
17 posts
10/21/2005 6:44 pm

it is nice to love and enjoy both girls and guys
....bi is the best of all worlds
and it is nicer when you are greedy
and get laid double
and oral is the way to enjoy more....
chebucto at hot


imohitmontblanc 44M/41F

10/25/2005 3:52 pm

You should try hanging out with a couple! Maybe someone like us! lol. That way there's less pressure while you figure it all out.....which will probably take two seconds flat!


curioscatgirl 38F

10/26/2005 1:35 am

I thank you for your interest... I am just not into couples. I think it is the guy thing. Anyway I want my first time with a woman to be 1 on 1. Only fair to ME, especially, and to whoever she may be.


cherry_surprise5 36F

10/27/2007 6:45 am

HI there, nice blog!

Cherry Surprise


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