does this really happen  

rm_cru1972 44M
3520 posts
5/20/2006 10:08 am

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does this really happen

Well me again, I have a few questions for you to ponder. Have you ever seen someone and wondered , Is that the person for me? The one who I will spend my life with. My soul mate? Have you ever met a person and thought I would like to get to spend the rest of my life with this person?

Is it magic when you find someone like that? Or is it fate? Is it in the cards you have been dealt, or the choices you have made? Does that kind of thing really happen? And if so, why?

Have you ever met someone and thought I want… no need to know more about this person? Have you ever learned so much about some one you felt like you could love this person, yet only scratched the surface to them. Or is it just lust?


meerkittykat 42F

5/20/2006 10:50 am

That's a mouthful....

Yes...met someone and wanted to spend the rest of my life with them. It didn't happen by just seeing someone. I needed time to reach that conclusion.

I think it's magic AND fate.

Yes....I already know so much about my soulmate, and need, desire, ache to know so much more. To know is to love, and I want to love her more than I ever thought possible. It's how I connect to her.

--Meer ...needs caffine after that....


twirly_girl 47F

5/20/2006 11:36 am

It happens when you aren't looking. It comes to you when you least expect it. And you just know... kinda like the way you know about a good melon. (Sorry... had to put a "when harry met sally" reference in there).

Then there's the niggling feeling "how could this person possibly feel the same way?" but you know... you know they do. You'll see it in their smile. You'll see it in their eyes.

You'll know.
You'll get tingles.

I used to wonder if any of that was possible. And yet I've waited my whole life for it... so it must be. LOL

I hope it's not just lust.

-Nikki


rm_cru1972 44M
4407 posts
5/20/2006 12:02 pm

    Quoting meerkittykat:
    That's a mouthful....

    Yes...met someone and wanted to spend the rest of my life with them. It didn't happen by just seeing someone. I needed time to reach that conclusion.

    I think it's magic AND fate.

    Yes....I already know so much about my soulmate, and need, desire, ache to know so much more. To know is to love, and I want to love her more than I ever thought possible. It's how I connect to her.

    --Meer ...needs caffine after that....
Your words do come from the heart, thank you for the words and the visit.


rm_DarknStar 54F
2823 posts
5/20/2006 12:48 pm

Cru, you bring up some good questions. and answers I dont have at the moment. I want to sit back and read the comments along with you.

Your questions hit hard, and Im thinking about them. Lucky you, you can put it in words, where I cant.


rm_cru1972 44M
4407 posts
5/20/2006 12:51 pm

    Quoting twirly_girl:
    It happens when you aren't looking. It comes to you when you least expect it. And you just know... kinda like the way you know about a good melon. (Sorry... had to put a "when harry met sally" reference in there).

    Then there's the niggling feeling "how could this person possibly feel the same way?" but you know... you know they do. You'll see it in their smile. You'll see it in their eyes.

    You'll know.
    You'll get tingles.

    I used to wonder if any of that was possible. And yet I've waited my whole life for it... so it must be. LOL

    I hope it's not just lust.
Ditto to everything you said. Is all I can say.


rm_cru1972 44M
4407 posts
5/20/2006 2:17 pm

    Quoting rm_DarknStar:
    Cru, you bring up some good questions. and answers I dont have at the moment. I want to sit back and read the comments along with you.

    Your questions hit hard, and Im thinking about them. Lucky you, you can put it in words, where I cant.
Thank you Dark, I'm thinking this will be a learning experience. These are not the words I wanted but these are the one's that came out. hopefully people will understand what I'm getting at.


rm_cru1972 44M
4407 posts
5/20/2006 2:21 pm

    Quoting rm_yummmy669:
    Then there's the niggling feeling "how could this person possibly feel the same way?" but you know... you know they do. You'll see it in their smile. You'll see it in their eyes.

    You'll know.
    You'll get tingles.


    good description 69.

    It does happen, and it is wonderful and scary at the same time. I keep reminding myself of my 9 month rule: no major decisions for 9 months. I was asked what happened in 9 months, would you dump me? I just smiled and said either that or ask you to marry me.

    I feel like I have known him forever, yet want to know everything that I don't yet know. There are just too many things that click, and we are perfect together. It is a wonderful feeling.

    I am one of those people that believe pretty much all you have stated and then some. Some one who is very religious said it was in God's plan as to whether it happens or not. I see God in many different lights, even tie in the soul mates, fate, and karma to him. Why can't one God have many faces? Oh brother, look at me.....I had better shut up.

    yummmy
I liked that description as well, Thanks yummy, you do make good points


rm_yukonpaul 51M
1120 posts
5/20/2006 6:34 pm

Deep man, Deep! Yes and No. Clueless.


rm_cru1972 44M
4407 posts
5/20/2006 6:57 pm

    Quoting lioness860:
    yes i have, chased him away only to want him back again.........
May you get him back, and have it better than before


rm_cru1972 44M
4407 posts
5/20/2006 7:20 pm

Here's to hoping you get what you are looking for


catseyes23 61F

5/20/2006 7:49 pm

I did once, Cru. It was blissful while it lasted but I pushed him aside. It was a little too intense for me.

Cats


rm_cru1972 44M
4407 posts
5/20/2006 8:08 pm

Glad you had the good part of the experience. but very sorry to hear that it was too intense


digdug41 49M

5/20/2006 10:16 pm

It's just lust this way.

roaming the cyber streets of blogland


rm_cru1972 44M
4407 posts
5/20/2006 11:24 pm

    Quoting digdug41:
    It's just lust this way.
At least it's something right?


GoddessOfTheDawn 105F
11240 posts
5/21/2006 1:46 am


it can be many things....




rm_cru1972 44M
4407 posts
5/21/2006 3:03 am

    Quoting rm_mzhunyhole:
    Yes..when I met my ex..he was "the one".He was my soul mate.There was no doubt in my mind or his...but there was another lover who loved him more than me..and she took him from me.We battled for many years,but in the end,she won.She was stronger than me or him..he picked her..drugs..Sometimes,I wonder if I will ever love like that again..I hope not..it was much too intense.
You deserve to be loved that way mzhuny.


rm_cru1972 44M
4407 posts
5/21/2006 4:24 am

Hopefully it can be real too


libgemOH 56M/52F

5/21/2006 5:09 am

I always wanted to believe in it and always tried to say it was for real but it wasn't, it was just wishful thinking. I stopped believing that such a thing could be possible....

until it happened -B


angelofmercy5 59F
17881 posts
5/21/2006 5:57 am

Cru....believe it! It can be real! And it can be wonderful! And you SO deserve it my friend.


rm_cru1972 44M
4407 posts
5/21/2006 8:25 am

    Quoting libgemOH:
    I always wanted to believe in it and always tried to say it was for real but it wasn't, it was just wishful thinking. I stopped believing that such a thing could be possible....

    until it happened -B
I know and I'm glad for you B.


rm_cru1972 44M
4407 posts
5/21/2006 8:27 am

    Quoting angelofmercy5:
    Cru....believe it! It can be real! And it can be wonderful! And you SO deserve it my friend.
You always know just how to make me feel tingly all over


HBowt2 59F

5/23/2006 3:39 pm

it is real....it's just a matter of finding it....and sometimes it gets so damn hard to keep looking....but it's worth it....


rm_cru1972 44M
4407 posts
5/23/2006 5:05 pm

Thanks H, and welcome back


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