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I have noticed that just because something makes your eyes roll with one lover doesnt mean the same trick will work with another.
As an example, my recent x-bf. I would have him try to do different things with me, to me that I would try with say NJBC but it didnt have the same effect on me. Why ? Because x-bf would do it out of obligation, as in do it cause I asked not because he simply liked it too. He always thought certain activities were for whores and ladies just didnt do certain things..He only liked 2 positions and both had HIM in control, missionary and me on all fours. I tried to work with him though. I wholeheartedly enjoy being all fours but vary it a bit plsss..I wanted him to make sure I was a nice angle, ass up high and face way down into the pillow, even add a finger in the arse if you could pls to have double penetration, but nope...and if i asked him to spank me it was more of a pat than a good ol burning spank, god forbid i asked him to pull my hair he might have lost his erection, but oh well.
I started thinking about all this because the other night he just popped up at my apt , drunk mind you, because he needed someone to talk. I knew from previous experience that if I ignored him he would make a scene so I let him in and we talked and he tried and i told him I couldnt I was seeing someone. He slept off his drunkness on my couch and then left in his not so merry way.
I understand that if a guy calls or comes over after midnite he's not exactly coming for the conversation kinda comfort but wtf....did he honestly think id want to straddle him after he picked his current GF over me because she played the baby card..wtf!!!!The nerve!!!
Anyhow after hearing him rant I realized his current gf did me a favor....Girl you can have him!!!