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My Perceptions
 
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A lot of Email
Posted:May 16, 2008 3:55 pm
Last Updated:May 31, 2008 7:04 am
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Why is it that there seems to be a lot of email these days and not a lot of meeting up. We have not changed too much. We still enjoy meeting couples and having a good time, from just dinner to much more.

The emails consist of numerous requests for photo swapping. We are not members of this site to swap photos, we were hoping to swap people.

Lol... Where did all the people go. I know gas is getting expensive, but do people not like meeting face to face anymore.
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Relocate: Yes/Maybe
Posted:Apr 12, 2008 9:33 am
Last Updated:Mar 18, 2024 9:54 pm
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My wife and I enjoy the swinging lifestyle and appreciate sites like this. But when reading some profiles we have come across profiles that answer the question RELOCATE? and the answer is YES/MAYBE.

My wife asked me what would lead a couple to relocate? Is it for a couple?

My opinion: There are some couples that would relocate to the area of a rich/well to do couple that would be willing to foot the bill for a party session that would last "forever". A gold digger couple if you will.

My wife's opinion: The couple is looking for something else, besides eachother. She thinks that this is the first sign that the couple is not happy together and is willing to give up stuff for others, which will not stop at the home in which they live.

I don't know. I get it for singles, but for couples we just don't understand why a couple would be willing to relocate. What is your opinion?
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Sexual Harassment???
Posted:Mar 4, 2008 10:11 pm
Last Updated:Mar 18, 2024 9:54 pm
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Our man told me this story after a day at work...

One afternoon, while at work, he was approached by a customer after he spent almost an hour talking about the ins and outs of his profession (honestly they are boring).

As he was finishing up with the presentation the woman came up to him and said point blank...

"I would do anything if you could get me to the top of the list!"

He said he joked and replied back, "ANYTHING?. He claims that he implied the price would be going up.

In response the woman reached out, grabbed his hand, pulled it to her waist, which was covered by a "slick" dress and rubbed his hand where her panties should be. To his touch he could not feel any panties as she said, "YES, ANYTHING!!!"

He politely played with his ring and said that he was married. To this she responded, "who said that she can't join us." At the same time, she grabbed the fabric at her hips and started to inch her dress up until the hem was just below the ass checks. When the bottom of the dress was in position, she politely dropped her purse and bent over to pick it up.

He said that she bent over and he saw all that she had to offer. He kindly declined and came home.

He told me the story, and that night she called, it was forwarded to his cell phone. He handed me the phone I talked to her...

The job was put to the top of the list... and we worked late Friday, and into Saturday morning.

Sexual Harassment????
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What constitutes Cheating ????
Posted:Feb 21, 2008 7:02 am
Last Updated:Dec 24, 2008 11:33 am
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We had a couple that the woman claimed that her man was cheating on her...

Situation... We were having a good night on our third meeting and apparently she didn't drink often. We had a wonderful meal and things were clicking...

We traveled to them and rented a room... After dinner and dancing we returned to the motel and had a few more drinks (the men about 8 the women about 5 total for the night)

We watched them, they watched us... girl/girl action, then we swapped...

Funny thing is she passed out after the couple swap...

To make the most of the night our woman experienced her first DP ... while the other woman slept...

The next morning she asked what happened... we told her... and she got mad and yelled at her man for CHEATING....

Is this cheating???? If one passes out during the act... knowing what is going on... does that constitute cheating?
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Cheating Swingers....
Posted:Jun 1, 2007 10:16 am
Last Updated:Dec 24, 2008 11:35 am
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A funny thing happened to us during the course of the year... we were accused of cheating on our swinging partners....

Wow!!! We have been a couple for ten years and we have participated, discussed and communicated about the lifestyle that we enjoy for over four years. With each meeting and each encounter we have learned something about ourselves and about eachother. At no point have we, or will we, participate in this lifestyle if one or the other feels uncomfortable. At no point during our participation in this lifestyle have either one of us done something that the other partner did not approve of.

So, if we have been true to ourselves, why would a couple believe that we were "cheating" on them by entertaining others. Are we missing something here??????
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I Will Take Death
Posted:Dec 15, 2005 8:20 pm
Last Updated:Mar 3, 2008 9:58 pm
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I am happily married and in love with my wife, however, that can end at any moment. However, I spend a lot of time trying to keep the emotion alive.

When I was a whole 11 years old I was in a fight at school with a boy named Scott. I hated this , I wanted to kick his ass every day and I did not know why. One day, he finally spoke to me and I just went up and socked him in the face. A short fight broke out and we were off the the Principal's office.

The higher authority in all their wisdom sat us in the office in chairs side by side; however, I did not have the urge to hit him anymore. We began talking and then I was called in to the Principal's office and soon my mother came to take me home for three days.

Upon my return to school, I again saw Scott and I had no urge to punch him in the eye. Further, I only had the need to talk to him again. Turns out we lived close by, like a lot of the same things, and soon became good friends.

Hate, or what ever, is an emotion that comes and goes. Love is an emotion; therefore, it can come and go.

Another example is that "unconditional love" is upon a condition. Many people say that the 's love is "unconditional"...My ass...Love is conditional, it is always conditional. Tell me a 6 year old is going to love his parents that beat him and wont give him any food. No he is scared...that is not love.

So, although, my current wife and I are swingers...we can range from the "pushy give me sex type" to the "nice dinner partners" we try to make sure that we know there are two important things that could end tomorrow...our life and our love.

Which would be worse...the love...and least in death you were loved.
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Why We Swing
Posted:Dec 10, 2005 3:26 pm
Last Updated:May 11, 2010 11:43 am
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We have a married couple that are our friends that is going through a tough time right now. It seems that they both are habitual cheaters. They are both upset that the other would cheat, it seems as though they think they are what is all and great in each other's lives and there is no way anything else could matter.

Sex is nothing more than a physical act that is exchanged between two people. The attachment that is created by two people is mental in nature. We look at the one across from us and know who they are inside and out. You talk to the person and can somewhat finish sentences because you know them that well. If you don't, why are you together?

It is funny when you think of those friends that would frown on what we do. They are so much more "committed" to their partner (that they cheat on...lol) and look down their nose on the lifestyle.

We have male friends, jealous male friends that say they could not have sex with their wife again if she was with another man. Well, what about the men she had sex with before you? I don't know about anyone else, I am only on my second wife, and neither one of them were virgins when we went on our honeymoon (that ended quickly the first time, she thought I was cheating...lol). My wife did not marry the man she lost her virginity to either, she wanted to have life experiences to work off when she did marry (I am also her second). So what is all the fuss about the "tainted" woman.

Then there are those women that say "my man will leave me for a better looking woman". Again, if you have a worry, it means you feel guilty about your inability to take care of yourself.

Then there are those couples that think the other person will find someone new and leave them. Those people that believe this should realize that sex is the least of their worries. If you fear your other half will leave, then you are not true to the other half. You must be the best person that you can be and this will not be a worry. And so what if the other does find another, if you are confident that you are being the best person you can, there will be a line of people waiting.

I mention the above examples, and to be PC will say that they could go either way, male or female. But, I don't believe it.

Swinging allows each partner to keep the youth experiences of the past alive. We get to be attracted to another person and feel attractive, which is a great self-esteem builder.

Swinging allows each partner to learn about what makes them feel good, sexually. For those prudes that are in a sexual rut, a new set of ideas and experiences will do worlds of good.

But the reason that my wife and I swing are none of those things. We do not have any together (all three from previous marriages). My wife and I are best friends first. Comfortable with our own minds and bodies.

We swing because what keeps us together is each other, not , possessive tendencies, guilt, fear, or comfortable/ordinary sex.
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Does size matter? A man's view
Posted:Dec 9, 2005 10:34 am
Last Updated:Mar 3, 2008 10:02 pm
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The debate has been waged that women have this great concern about the size of a man's penis. I mean any more on AdultFriendFinder your business card must have the size of your penis on it, and a reputable doctor to confirm it with.

I have an average penis of barely over 7 inches, I would not say 7+ though, 1/64 or so doesn't give me the right.

Does the size, or looseness, of a woman matter to a man. I will say that it does. I have had experiences with virgins (a long time ago), Sloppy Sallys, and the middle of the road, the girls that I can have the best sex with.

Let's get the obvious out of the way. A woman that is too loose, usually because she did not get the "husband" stitch after her last . For me, and my experience, it was like having sex with a condom on, it seems as though I could never get off, and the ability to get off is the ultimate goal for a man. Let me shoot my load, I will keep shooting and going, but I gotta at least shoot once.

The not so obvious is too tight. It is like anal sex. You can have all the creams and lotions that you want, but in the end you still get raw, that don't bleed or anything, but it makes the penis hard to hold while taking a leak. Every now and then is good, but twice a day, no thanks.

Then there is my wife. I have never had better sex with any one person. Oh sure, I get off and have a good time with the people we meet, I just know that I am addicted to her's more. Is it love that does it, or is it in fact that I have found the right hole, the whole in this world that works the best for my penis...or her words ,we are screwmates (soulmates).

In the end I guess size of a man does matter. A man with a tiny penis needs those girls that are tight, a man with a huge penis needs those that are loose, and those of us cursed with an average penis need an average woman.

Women look at yourselves. Lesbians need no dick. Then there is that thing at the "toy store" 16 inches long 5 inches wide think of getting that twice a day for life.

So, if size matter's to a woman, it matters because the specific size of the specific man she is with is not compatible for the two of them, those specific people, to have great sex. Every now and then we all like change, anal sex, the "black toy", different partners, it is what makes our lifestyle great.

But in the end, if two people are not sexually compatible then something is wrong, and believe me it is not the man's fault. See, our penis stays the same size from about 15 years of age, I am only 32 and mine has not shrunk as of yet. During the course of a long term relationship, that includes having , it is the woman that changes the sexual picture, not the man. Then we hear, "you don't satisfy me anymore", and get blamed for something a woman failed to do, and they do it by attacking our man hood.

Oh, my first wife did this, told her to get a "husband" stitch, heard the "it is all about you" and eventually we were not sexually compatible anymore. She wanted to know why I didn't get off like I used too and told me that she wasn't getting off like she used to. How am I to blame in this. Oh it was good sex in the beginning, three or four times a day at times, but then everything changed, MY PENIS SHRANK!!!!????

bearing is tough on the woman's body, and I am not telling the ladies not to have babies, but I am saying that women need to protect themselves from forcing their husbands into the condition of "mid-life crisis".

In the end, I believe, that every marriage is hanging by a thread, or a husband stitch.
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