Baby Thoughts...  

cpl4xcitement04 46M/42F
21 posts
6/8/2005 4:47 pm

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Baby Thoughts...


Just wanted to jump on while its quiet and jot down some thoughts. We are planning to start trying for a baby soon and although I am looking forward to it, I feel like I am not being fair to ask that all play time stops while we are trying and then once it works. But it would be a disaster to have an oops, like a broken rubber or something it all be ruined. I need some advise on what we should do. We always use protection anyway, but have to use special rubbers that are non-latex due to allergies. I trust them to work for playtime while I am protected and not able to get pregnant but not sure if I trust them once that protection is gone. Anyway, that is just the thoughts on my mind and I thought I would get some input from an outside, unbiased source. Take care.

wyvernrose 38F
3895 posts
6/8/2005 8:50 pm

well our youngest daughter was an Opps thankfully outside playtime....so there wasn't any confusion but I understand what you are saying entirely...

we don't play while 'trying' but I can't take the pill anyway.....we always use rubbers....it is all I can use for contraception....

Unfortunately if you have been taking the pill for a long time it could be quite some time before you have any success at all, or it could happen straight away....

I would suggest starting out by stopping the pill and stopping play for a few months....and then reasses if you haven't fallen pregnant....

keep track of who you see when and always be careful with the rubbers No penetration at all without them....

Sex can be both uncomfortable and a joy during....if your partner doesn't like the taste of colustrum you may want to find a clean playmate who is....for her sake emotionally.....it really isn't fun when your partner doesn't touch your breasts for almost an entire year as they taste funny.....

but most certainly cut back on Play during the pregnancy....it can make things very difficult with discomfort....and if you try to continue playing during and she is tired and uncomfortable as she will be it isn't always necessarily 'fun' although you may find at other times she has a greater urge and an appetite during than you can keep up with.....just be very selective and careful....

if they don't respect the hows and whys of why you do things they way you are doing that's there problem your with your partner that's all that matters...

WyvernRose


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