It's OK to disagree with friends....really.  

cookie7823 46F
404 posts
7/15/2006 6:30 pm

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7/19/2006 6:41 pm

It's OK to disagree with friends....really.


This is sort of a heated subject with NorCal regulars and I may piss some people off. (If they actually read my blog, that is!)

Recently, a gal came into the NorCal chat room and because of the hottie pics on her profile, the guys were all over her. I looked at her profile and honestly, I didn't see anything fake about it. I thought she was a very attractive 27 year old woman. However, the only reason I looked at her profile was because someone in the room was calling her "out" as a "cop".

Here is the story as I understand it: this gal gave someone her IM address so they could chat outside of the AdultFriendFinder chat room. Once they were chatting, she revealed that she was not actually 27, but in fact 14 years old. Perhaps it is just me, but I think that a sane person would just immediately end the conversation, block that person from their IM and just report it to AdultFriendFinder.

A) This hasn't happened to anyone else so there is no corroborating evidence.

B ) If you believed someone in the chatroom to be posing as law enforcement looking for potential pedophiles....why, why, why would you try to "out" them? Amazingly, there are people out there trying to protect our children.

C) And since being called a "cop", this gal continues to come back in the chat room. If she really were a "cop", why would she come back under the same handle?

My take: this was all a big mistake...maybe even a typo in an IM. Or maybe she is a "cop". People are quick to judge others without any evidence of wrongdoing. But again, law enforcement chatting in our chatroom to catch pedophiles considered wrong?? This totally blows my mind. To those who are so up in arms about this issue, I have this to say. "What if were your 14 year old daughter????"


drnick20054 28M

7/15/2006 7:40 pm

i dont want anyone all over my daughter. i'll neuter 'em


cookie7823 replies on 7/16/2006 1:43 pm:
You got a daughter?? You're just a baby yourself!!

drnick20054 28M

7/17/2006 11:41 am

haha no i was being sarcastic


Sinderlicious 51F
310 posts
7/19/2006 12:01 am

Because darlin, there are sickos that walk amongst us and they don't WANT the cops in there screwing up their fun. My opinin anyway. Or maybe it's someone who just turns them INTO the cops but isn't actully a cop themselve..andyanno..I've done the same thing. I think AdultFriendFinder is catching some heat about some of the things they've turned blind eyes too and now it's biting em in the ass.

I can't stand to even see a 50 yr old man hitting on a 20 year old in there..makes my skin crawl I tell ya

Sin like you mean it!


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