Walls and chains ..our fortress within  

complexlysimple 34M
894 posts
8/9/2006 7:00 pm

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Walls and chains ..our fortress within


One of the many posts that I've thought about writting, so here we go.

It seems that people talk about putting up walls to keep otherr out quite a bit... Which is okay, because things that bring harm come in many forms ...but the problems with walls are they aren't mobile

Which to me means that the fortress is also a prison ..and I don't know about anyone else but I don't particularly like being caged in or tied down ...physically, mentally or emotionally.

That's not to say I'm the sort that follows the 4 F's (Find'em, Feed'em, Fuck'em, Forget'em) -that's just not me- when it comes to relationships, one woman can be enough though she'd have to be willing to let me be 'me'

Which means letting me do as I please, but letting me know what will hurt her so I can avoid doing that ...

and as you can imagine though not wanting to be 'tied down' also means I'm not really into the whole bondage thing ...so getting me to do so requires that I trust you immensly ...and I haven't met many that I trust that much.

But the biggest one for me is not restraining my thoughts or telling me what I can and can't think... sorry but NO.

I've been given free will for a reason and I think I'll use it as much as I can ... so personally those walls have been hammered down and formed into armor and anychains that may have bound (or do bind me) me are becoming chainmail and chains of rememberence ...the world isn't stationary so why should I be?

How about you? Are you the type to build 'walls' and be 'tied down' or are you more of a free roaming spirit too?

BaronessK 52F

8/9/2006 8:06 pm

I have NORAD type defenses...but I am also the one at the 'control panel' handling all those switches. That makes me...cautious and realistic but not pessimitic...more a realistic optimist, maybe?


rm_mangomami2 41F
364 posts
8/9/2006 8:21 pm

Total roaming spirit , but as of late I have been incredibly locked in , sad , angry , frustrated , jealous (yuck) , and just want to scream ...I am working on all of the above , I find this range of emotion does not suit me at all!


complexlysimple replies on 8/10/2006 7:13 pm:
sometimes a roaming spirit may wander those those emotions ...but perhaps at some level they should be enjoyed, because one never knows when they might be lost ...

I sound a bit too mystical there don't I

Lemondrop15484u 54F
4816 posts
8/10/2006 5:01 am

It depends on how many times I get hurt (pissed) weather the wall comes up.


complexlysimple replies on 8/10/2006 7:15 pm:
lucky for you then ..for me my walss and armor are almost always up ...being open and blogging here is more of an exception -not the rule- for me.

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