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comegetyasome26 36F
12 posts
5/10/2006 12:21 pm

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why do we always loose interest in the person we are with. why do married men and women always look for something better.


5/10/2006 1:20 pm

I don't think that it is about looking for something better . In my case , it's just about the differance . I wouldn't trade my lady in , but on the same note , it just get's to rutine living everyday with the same person . Change is needed to keep interest up .

gordo43_56401 60M

5/10/2006 1:56 pm

because there partner is sometimes dead in bed dont satisfy partner

hey-bratender 62M

5/10/2006 2:50 pm

guys like badboy play with it so much, messing around on this site, there's nothing left for wifey.

spacecadet561 59M

5/10/2006 2:59 pm

There are many reasons married people drift apart. Sometimes one changes and the other doesn't. Sometimes one expects the other to change and that doesn't happen. Sometimes one just loses interest in the other. Sometimes there's a breach of trust, which leads to a chill, which leads to lack of intimacy, which leads to search for substitutes...which is why I'm here.


notsoold1965 51M
7 posts
5/10/2006 6:48 pm

Sometime theres just no ryme or reason,......its just the changing of a season....
aka vidiohunter

SirMounts 102M

6/3/2006 1:33 am

Welcome to blogging, comegetyasome. *smiling*

riverdawg52 46M

6/26/2006 8:19 pm

Not so much as losing interest, but the sex becoming routine. Kinda like, oh Hamburger Helper vs. a gourmet meal, ya know?

rm_normanmidd 50M
5 posts
7/2/2006 6:45 pm

it ussually takes twoo to keep a marraige going if one stops giving and starts taking then it becomes a losing to other side and thats when statr looking other places as well for things to please them

2rescueyou 47M
1 post
4/3/2007 9:01 pm

Woodpecker Joke

A Mississippi woodpecker and a Texas woodpecker were in Mississippi
arguing about which state had the toughest trees to peck. The
Mississippi woodpecker said that they had a tree that no woodpecker can
peck. The Texas woodpecker challenged him and was able to peck a hole in
the tree with no problem. The Mississippi woodpecker was in awe. The
Texas woodpecker then challenged the Mississippi woodpecker to peck a
tree in Texas that no woodpecker had been able to peck successfully.
After flying to Texas, the Mississippi woodpecker successfully pecked
the tree with no problem.

The two woodpeckers were now confused. How is it that the Texas
woodpecker was able to peck the Mississippi tree and the Mississippi
woodpecker was able to peck the Texas tree when neither one was able to
peck the tree in their own state?

After thinking for some time they both came to the same conclusion:

Your pecker is always harder when you're away from home

neverwaskissed 52M/52F

5/19/2008 5:11 pm

I don't believe that all married men and women always look for something better. Some look for something different. Some look for someone they can do things with that they would never do with the person who they are supposed to be with "forever" and possibly the father or mother of their children, etc. Wouldn't it suck living with her for 50 more years after trying to get her to do anal, tie you up, or pee on you, and find out she is grossed out by such abhorrent or aberrant behavior? Some look for someone that will do things their spouse won't, but which they need or desire. And I don't think any of those have to do with "losing interest" with their mate. They are often still quite interested, and aren't looking to replace them at all. The ones that did lose interest or look to replace them probably compromised during their initial choice, and were with someone that they had little chance of being happy with.

rm_Huggybearky 41M
3 posts
5/19/2008 6:08 pm

I think that when we look to build relationships with other people, sexual or otherwise, there is an excitement in reinventing ourselves. In my opinion when we are with someone we reflect the side of ourselves that the other person brings out of us. That's why we are cautious around parents, raunchy around friends, and more sensitive around our lovers. This is good and bad though. Some people bring out the best in us but some bring out the worst. I do agree that most people don't want to trade in they are with but we do wonder who we would be with someone else. When you live day in and out with the same person you begin to define yourself by who you are when you are with them. You only think of yourself as a wife, a daughter, or a mother. I think we all secretly long to rediscover ourselves in our affairs with others. It awakens us and let's us express other sides of our soul. We come alive in a since. That being said it's also good to have some no strings, hot, sweaty, jungle-monkey love too!

tallandplayfull 60M
9 posts
5/25/2008 8:33 am

After many years of marriage, I think most men and women look outside of the marriage for sexual adventures because their fantasy or sexual interests have been rejected by there spouse, or at least they "think" their spouse will not go along with the new things they want to try. Some just enjoy the excitement of the risk of getting found out. Some guys just don't care, they just want to get laid as much as possible and don't care who they hurt along the way.

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