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Spank me... please
Spank me... please
I have been thinking about a lot of things lately and since I don't really have anyone who really gives a shit to talk to...here I am. I would be greatly surprised if anyone does read this.
Just in case someone is out there...hop on for the ride.
Allright, it has been around since the cave man first knocked the tar out of his woman. Erotic spanking. It is the practice of spanking another for the sexual gratification of either or both parties.Spanking can be carried out with the bare hands or with implements such as gloves, a ruler, hairbrush, paddle, switch, belt (clothing), cane, crop, birch, martinet or whip. It is sometimes combined with sexual roleplaying and/or ageplay.
Positions for spanking include:
* over the knees (OTK) or across the lap
* lying face down on a bed
* stooped over the back of a chair
* hands on knees
* diaper position (supine--genital exposure to enhance humiliation)
* kneeling on a bed or ottoman, stooped over with hands on the floor
* bent under the arm of the spanker
* wooden horse
* birching block
* all fours
Alright, so here I am at 7:30 in the morning thinking about spanking. To spank or not to spank. Is this weird or what? No Saturday morning cartoons for this kid.
I have learned over the years that the one who is to be spanked (that would be me )is eager to give up control to another. Though this is an act that requires trust, I think about it quite often.
Who would have thought that years ago when I hated the thought of a spanking, that I would in the future crave it and all that it entails. At times I yearn for a man's large firm hand striking my behind. The stinging pain/pleasure of contact.
I believe that as long as the people involved are consenting adults that just about anything is healthy. One a day will keep the doldrums away. I suppose I better go get some sleep and dwell on the lack of action on the derrier.
11/19/2005 2:01 pm
I havent spanked anyone in a long time and would love to give you a long sensual spanking sometime|
11/19/2005 4:31 pm
when im in your town i would love for you to cum spank me and maybe ill spank you|
11/19/2005 5:02 pm
I would like to spank you with you lying face down on a bed. I think that role playing is fun and a big turn on. Thanks for writing such tantalizing things. You could make me hard with nothing but words. |
11/20/2005 5:41 am
Hi there,I have to say,you are a very interesting person.Thank you for viewing my profile,by the way.|
I have enjoyed reading your blog so far,there are some quite interesting insights.
I have secretly been a lover of spanking,but it is hard to bring it into play as not everyone appreciates how erotic it can be.
Most people's view on it is that it is a form of abuse,& that people who spank or are spanked,are in some way distorted.
Now i have to say that i'm not really into the real hardcore stuff,with whips,canes & cat-o-nine-tails etc,that sort of stuff does'nt interest me at all.
I would say that i have a medium pain threshold,& i have NO desire to be marked in any way.However,i have found that sex after being spanked is very much more arousing.It must be the endorphines that are secreted into the blood stream,that gives me a natural high,& makes my body more sensitive to touch etc?
Have you found this?
Also it think,the fear of being branded a weirdo,or psycho,because i like spanking,is a bit of a put off in practising it.
As i have said,we're NOT talking about "Beatings here",Just consentual
playful spanking,on the ass.Thats all i would be interested in.Ther are a few people that i know,take it to the extreme,& not only on the ass either.They actually like to be thrashed,& beaten,& flogged,both on their backs as well as their asses.Thats too extreme for me.
I have used my hands,a slipper,& a paddle to spank.Technique is also very important.Rubbing the area just after each spank,helps to alieviate most of the sting of a slap,& helps the person endure more time to enjoy the experience of a good spanking.
The use of "safe words" is always a good thing,unless there is total trust among the participants,& even then,they should still be used.
Although i have played with spanking in the past with one or two of my partners,& enjoyed it emmensely.I hope that one day i will be fortunate enough to recieve a spanking from a professional Dominatrix woman.It has long since been a fantasy of mine,among others...lol
The thought of submitting to her firm hand,& other impliments as she uses her skill,(& it is a skill),excites me greatly.I know a few "madames" through another site,& i hope one day to visit one,or maybe two of them,to fulfill this fantasy of mine.
So what fantasies have you had,if any,which involves spanking?
Thank you for sharing,& keep up the good work your doing in your blog.
"Always remember...keep smiling!"