Would you or Would'nt you?  

cocoatits81 35F
347 posts
9/4/2006 1:39 pm

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Would you or Would'nt you?

Sleep with someone who was in a long term relationship/married?I'm not putting anyone on blast,just wondering if the situation arose and you like this person a lot,would you do it?Hypothetically because this is based on a dilema I'm having and I wanted to know from others point of view.

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rm_dimples565 67F
24436 posts
9/4/2006 2:21 pm

I have two married friends I spend time with. They are in the same home situation I am with ailing spouses who are unable to have sex and it being permanent.

We need a way to vent our stress too and since are lives are so much alike we have alot in common to talk about. None of us is changing our lives, we will take care of our loves ones as long as they need us. But we need the warmth. hugs, kisses and the excitement of sex just like anyone else.

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cocoatits81 35F

9/4/2006 9:24 pm

Hm,I never saw it from that angle before;thanks for your perspective on that.I guess it isn't wrong if your spouse is terminally sick or disabled.I'm sorry about your situation,I hope all is well.

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ilovetolickit82 34M

9/6/2006 8:30 am

The thing is...Dimples has a much different situation than you do. No one is unable to satify the sexual needs of their partner. This guy is just cheating on his girlfriend. There is nothing positive about it. If you really want to have some fun with someone just get a hold of me. I'm always around, and I'm a good guy. TTYL.

actually_yesss 53M

9/7/2006 2:43 pm

It's not always as black and white as that. Sometimes, despite best efforts to keep that part going, it doesn't work. But for other reasons, the rest of the situation is great, and should be kept going. If there is an understanding at the beginning about discretion and no strings, it can work without causing others pain. Just my two cents.

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