Need a Spark!  

closetloverboy 48
8 posts
1/13/2006 8:17 am

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Need a Spark!

Yes, I am a married man on AdultFriendFinder. I know some people find this appauling. Most are hypocrites thinking that they are living a "high-and mightly" life-style. People need to take a good look at themselves before they throw stones. The difference between me and the hypocrites, is that I am honest about my feelings! There are many married people out there (men and women)that need to be with someone else, (sexually, emotionally and/or spiritually) to bring that spark back into their lifes. Like most married people, I do not want to leave my wife. I do not want to leave my kids, who I treasure more than life itself! What I would like to do is meet a woman from time-to-time, that feels the same way that I is too short to suffer.....I like to enjoy life and all it has to give. Is that so terrible??????

evilgothgirl 51F

1/13/2006 8:41 am

Now there is some refreshing honesty.

We are in the same situation and you are 1000% correct in your views. I too am tired of hearing how nonjudgemental and open everyone here is. but, als, the tigers stripes always show.

I hope your search goes well!

rm_coathanger37 48M/48F
394 posts
1/13/2006 8:42 am

No it's not. What you will get flamed about is your wife may feel the exact same way and they don't think you would understand and allow her some fun to.

Have you talked to her about the the boredom in your sex life?


1/13/2006 9:00 am


rm_sexyffmedic2 48M
9 posts
1/13/2006 12:05 pm

very well put ,i know excatly whatu are saying

rm_bi_virgin3 39M/43F
62 posts
1/13/2006 1:37 pm

I do understand where you are coming from. are you and your wife experiencing a dry spell? Maybe you need to talk to her. Try something new. Buy a new toy. Watch a "fun" movie and let her know what it is you like. The spark you are looking for may be inside your own home. Good luck.

hotmomma032005 41F
1 post
1/13/2006 2:37 pm

I totally agree!! It seems like after I am with someone else, it toally puts a spark back in my marriage. I am glad there is someone else that feels the same as I do!! I love my husband, but this momma needs something else now and then

rm_muffin162 56M
763 posts
1/13/2006 3:34 pm

I have just been reading your wifes blog,funny she thinks the same.

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