3 Months / 3000 Miles  

closer2u1971 45M
87 posts
4/26/2006 4:40 am

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5/5/2006 2:36 am

3 Months / 3000 Miles

Have you ever stopped and noticed that more people are apt to take their vehicle in every 3 months / 3000 miles for maintenance than to stop every 3 months and evaluate their relationships.

We all think that once we are in a relationship that's all we need to do. Their is no maintenance checks or tune ups. Our belief is that you got with me because you liked me and well, that's good enough for me!

Maybe we should stop for a moment and evaluate what's going in the relationship/partnership. Look for areas that might need a little lube (no pun intended) or spots that need adjusting.

Most important of all, take a hard (again no pun intended) look at yourself and be honest. More and more people would place blame on the other than their ownselves. It's easier, which makes it common.

Communication can go a long way and it's cheaper than the reception you get on the cell phone.

ohsodelicious 57F
1922 posts
4/26/2006 7:05 am

closer...Like the post! Communication is key in any healthy relationship. Welcome to Blogville!! I hope you enjoy your stay


closer2u1971 45M

4/26/2006 9:37 am

Thank you ohsodelicous. It was actually your writings that inspired me to do the same ;-P

I don't claim to give good advice but I did stay at a Holiday Inn Express last night!

closer2u1971 45M

4/27/2006 2:58 am

Thank you mzhunyhole

juststeve50 61M
13 posts
5/4/2006 3:03 pm

Hey, this made me think. We do need to look at our relationships more closely and give them the tune-up that you talked about. Just found your blog today, through ohsodelicious, but have enjoyed it very much, keep up the good work.

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