10 Million Men...10 women!!  

closebullet 49M
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12/21/2005 6:08 pm

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10 Million Men...10 women!!

closebullet You know, the odds are hopelessly stacked against us. I am talking about the male to female ratio on this site. Please respond guys...How many emails do you send before you get a response. I have an acquaintance friend who has a 50 to 1 ratio. That is for every 50 emails he sends he gets a reply, of that reply, one in 15 turns into a real encounter, so that is an encounter every 750 emails!!! That is a lot of typing for not a lot of action. Pretty pathetic odds if you ask me (not that anyone is but that is the beauty of blogosphere, you do not need permission)

So, where was I, ah yes, the odds. I think that you do not pick ladies, they pick you. Just look at that desperate housewives group and you will see what I mean. There are a sum total of 6 females and over 100 males, again, the odds are not looking good. With so much noise, it is no wonder the odds are so bad, and AdultFriendFinder is reeling in the cash from all us paying slobs. Which leads me to another point, how is this different from prostitution (this is directed to the paying slobs like myself), and AdultFriendFinder being the pimp? Interesting thought, I guess one could argue that all AdultFriendFinder is doing is facilitating the meeting place for a bunch of horny, ok, curious individuals.

Anyway, guys, how successful has this venture been for you? I can say that for me it has been more successful than I thought it would be but not the great success story is is marketed as. It has allowed me to make these comments, all the things that I would not say out loud in front of my prudish friends. Ladies, feel free to comment as well, all comments are welcome. I

Kimmers777 106F

12/21/2005 6:58 pm

Without addressing the odds specifically, is being here all that different from being at a bar or a club?

Please don't take this the wrong way, (and since I don't know you, it is clearly not directed at you) but in a single environment, aren't most of the guys focused on one goal above all others? In that situation, don't the women generally determine who's going to get lucky? I hate that it sounds like such a lop sided selection process, but I think, in all honesty, it is all too often the case.

The up side that you should be seeing in this site is that the women interacting here have expressed a definitive interest in getting together with someone. That surely beats the club scene, where only a percentage of the ladies might be on the prowl, and many others might actually be out with their own dates.

Just my goofy opinion. Good luck to you!

closebullet 49M

12/22/2005 11:17 am

Kimmers, you bring up a good point about regarding the bar and club scene. You are right in saying that most guys are focused on one thing, and yes, most of the time the ladies decide who gets lucky.

Most women do express and interest in getting together with someone, the question is, how many are really serious? I think it is fair to say that even here, only a percentage ar on the "prowl" as you put it. I would not be surprised if the odds are not worse here than at the clubs though. Because at the club you can have a meaningful discussion, "size up" your pursuer and make a quick decision, here you are making a judgement on stats that may or may not be true.

my two cents.....

HotinTexasforU 58F

1/8/2006 11:06 pm

In response to your post about the availability of women on this site, please allow me to add my opinion. I joined this site on a lark - I was writing a profile for a friend and sort of got hooked on looking at the profiles. It became obvious that I had to post a profile to continue with my voyeuristic ways, so I did. Then I re-wrote it to include everything I ever wanted from a relationship - lots of sex.

You see... From a woman's perspective, one night stands are easy to find. A woman doesn't even need to be that attractive to go up to a guy in a bar (or online) and say they just wanted to be drilled for the evening. The line would wrap around the building! But, you see, women of substances (such as me) are looking to be drilled, and looking for someone who will stick around to do it again in the morning - and hopefully they jive well enough to to it RIGHT and often.

Men are usually shocked to find out I'm real, the breasts are really mine (sometimes I wish they weren't!), I'm intelligent, articulate and highly sexed as I claim. I'm the proverbial lady during the day and freak at night. It's too bad that I cannot find ONE man so far that can truly handle it.

Too bad you're not in Houston! Well, I AM considering visiting Dallas soon!

closebullet 49M

1/9/2006 4:21 pm

So, HotinTexas, are you saying that us men are just shallow creatures who do not care who we bed? As long as we can find somewhere to stick our members we are ok? Well, I must admit that in general terms we may be but I for one enjoy a conversation. Why? Because life is pretty plain as it is and exciting, thought provoking conversations makes it interesting.

I still think that the odds are are stacked against the male gender, the women have all the power. It kind of explains why when men can get the upper hand they do it with such gusto....since they do not have the upper hand often.

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