Being Loved or Getting Laid  

clevergirl4U 58F
1461 posts
4/9/2006 6:16 pm

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Being Loved or Getting Laid

Elysian wrote a VERY interesting post this morning. (If I link you to him, I can't use my smileys, and I am lost without them ...his post is titled "Keywords".) Please go read his post.

On our blog homepage we can now use the button

KEYWORD


and UP pops a ranked list of words that each of us use most frequently when we write. We can also
also visit our friends and pull up their numbers.

For anyone who reads "Psychology Today", believes in "Freudian Slips," and the power of the "Unconscious Mind" this is fascinating stuff.

The word "Love" ranked in the top three of every Blog I visited today. Considering that we bloggers are housed in a sex website, I find it pretty interesting that most of us manage to write about love, in some way or another. (Or maybe we are using "love" as a verb?)

It came as no surprise to me that aascrompn used "love" twice as many times as any other word. With his signature "Blog On!" it was no surprise that keithcancook's #1 word was "Blog," but "love" was his #2 word Coffee No Cream, Valleyrat4, and 1hotwahine all used "love" more than any other word. Poor over-worked luvpump has never used the word "love" in his Blog once, so I think we need to show the man some love ...just a sampling from my Watched List.

My top three are Love, Head, and Curious (and I have never once written about a man's second head) That I take a cerebral approach to all things, including sex, comes as no surprise to me. I was, however, surprised by the frequency of my usage of the word "love."

What do your numbers say about you?

Are you unconsciously more interested in being loved or getting laid?



TheRealThing655 48F
9558 posts
4/9/2006 9:46 pm

I haven't tried this yet, but definitely, it's love. The rest is icing.


keithcancook 60M
17846 posts
4/10/2006 12:44 am

I dunno, it depends on the day...

Um,

Blog On!


clevergirl4U 58F

4/10/2006 8:35 am

    Quoting TheRealThing655:
    I haven't tried this yet, but definitely, it's love. The rest is icing.
Having read your recent post, "I Slept Through Two Booty Calls," you made it pretty clear that there is more to YOUR life than "getting laid" Thanks for visiting!


clevergirl4U 58F

4/10/2006 8:39 am

    Quoting keithcancook:
    I dunno, it depends on the day...

    Um,

    Blog On!
So I guess this means that you would prefer be LOVED or get LAID, rather than BLOG, on any given day? Just checking...


campfirecozy 67M

4/10/2006 1:03 pm

CG4U,
I don't think we've crossed paths, but I too have been fascinated by the keywords that people use... I just posted some similar thoughts here: [post 304510]

BTW... Love showed up as my 12th ranked keyword... I guess that puts me in the "getting laid" or "wishful thinking about getting laid" category.

Cozy


clevergirl4U 58F

4/10/2006 1:52 pm

I'll get over there and take a look...but if love was 12th...well, you are very unusual...I hope in a "good way"...lol


expatbrit49 62M

4/10/2006 3:54 pm

It turns up on everyones.... even mine believe it or not:

I love getting blow jobs
I love pussy
I love..................

Don't think that overwhelming appearance of Love reflects that people are looking for Love, but hey, what do I know

Thank You for Your Time and Attention


clevergirl4U 58F

4/10/2006 7:23 pm

    Quoting expatbrit49:
    It turns up on everyones.... even mine believe it or not:

    I love getting blow jobs
    I love pussy
    I love..................

    Don't think that overwhelming appearance of Love reflects that people are looking for Love, but hey, what do I know
You love being LOVED ON, darlin'...when a women is really INTO you and LOVING every minute of pleasuring you...can't get enough of you...

Otherwise you would be using hookers to get that pussy


clevergirl4U 58F

4/10/2006 7:28 pm

    Quoting rm_valleyrat4:
    I was shocked at that myself about my blog. I use it more in the I "love" pizza sort of frame.
Have to say, I was surprised to see that as your #1. But what I wrote to Expatbrit applies to you...you may not be looking for the whole love experience at this point in your life, but you probably DO want a woman who loves being with you...loves doing all of those sweet things to you....without the traditional "love-trap"...

Maybe?


rm_1hotwahine 63F
21091 posts
4/11/2006 12:14 am

Mine are:
Love
Blogs
Head
Physical
Weird and Phone are tied for fifth place

I knew the first one would be love, because I use the word a lot. In fact I LOVE to use it, lol. Other than that, I'm not sure what any of it means. But I'm going to start searching for strange words like origami, or shuffleboard, and see what I come up with.

Yeah, I'm still [blog 1hotwahine]


clevergirl4U 58F

4/11/2006 7:07 am

    Quoting rm_1hotwahine:
    Mine are:
    Love
    Blogs
    Head
    Physical
    Weird and Phone are tied for fifth place

    I knew the first one would be love, because I use the word a lot. In fact I LOVE to use it, lol. Other than that, I'm not sure what any of it means. But I'm going to start searching for strange words like origami, or shuffleboard, and see what I come up with.
It may simply be that we overuse the word love as a verb? Or maybe the word unconsciously slips out in response to a deep-seated need?


clevergirl4U 58F

4/11/2006 7:10 am

    Quoting rm_mzhunyhole:
    I was surprised too..mine was love..cock and pussy..and here I thought I mostly thought and wrote about fucking and it was way down on the list..I reckon maybe MZHuny don't know what she's looking for after all..mmmm.
You know MZ. Huny...that's a great idea for a blog! If you don't use it, do you mind if I do?


kyplowboy22 61M

4/11/2006 8:24 am

What about being loved WHILE getting laid? lol


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
4/11/2006 8:46 am

I have to admit that I was quite surprised by that as well. I'm not sure what this really says, but I guess it can be viewed as a good thing. I do say that I'm looking to get laid as well, but I guess I'm really looking for love. Great post! Thank you!!


clevergirl4U 58F

4/11/2006 9:22 am

    Quoting aascrompn:
    I have to admit that I was quite surprised by that as well. I'm not sure what this really says, but I guess it can be viewed as a good thing. I do say that I'm looking to get laid as well, but I guess I'm really looking for love. Great post! Thank you!!
Sweetie...everyone in Blogland knows you are looking for love I don't even know if I've read your profile, but I've NEVER had the impression that you were just looking to get laid


clevergirl4U 58F

4/11/2006 9:25 am

    Quoting kyplowboy22:
    What about being loved WHILE getting laid? lol
Exactly!!!


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
4/11/2006 10:37 am

Maybe I need to change my style...


rm_1hotwahine 63F
21091 posts
4/11/2006 12:08 pm

Or maybe we UNDERuse the word love. Maybe we attach too strict of a meaning to it. I admit that I tend to use it very freely, but it's nothing that I plan to change. I like for it to mean little things as well as the big stuff.

Yeah, I'm still [blog 1hotwahine]


p33c3y0 42M

4/12/2006 11:27 am

i may use love a lot ... but ... it's a euphemism i'm sure.


clevergirl4U 58F

4/12/2006 4:17 pm

for what?


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