All dressed up and no one to do  

cinnerella 47F
59 posts
7/26/2005 8:56 pm

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All dressed up and no one to do

Well, i was making a trip down to a town where i have a 'friend' i see from time to time(not as often as i'd like).I made a point to send him a text message offering to do a certain something something most guys would jump at. Never got back to me. I was kind of bummed, then i wondered maybe it was offered up to easily. Does it turn you off(Guys out there) when a girl suggests sex? Is it unappealing because it wasnt a challenge, something to be had? Maybe he was just busy, who knows. But damn, he missed out, i was looking good, smelling good and smooooth all over!

rm_frnd4funTT 41M
21 posts
7/26/2005 10:46 pm

Sorry to hear that, Cind. I have never not wanted it because it was too easy... actually, most of the time I'm so thrilled it's easy I want to get to it as quick as I can, before she changes her mind.

Good luck


shebaby23 54F
29 posts
7/27/2005 1:56 am

that actually sounds' worse than my' is only clean when no one comes' over'...wishes to ya'...shebaby'

CuteAZguy27 39M
1545 posts
7/27/2005 4:01 am

[blog cinnerella] I am not going to speak for the guy, maybe he was busy and just didnt ge the text at the proper time, yet if he did just move on without saying anything, I say its more of the guys loss than your own. When a lady offers up sex so bluntly the man should say yes, so when it all comes down to it-dont take it on yourself, even though you wanted it, and he didnt respond. His loss, not yours.

shebaby23-The clean house scenerio actually happens in my life JUST a little to often.


dreamon78 56M  
1122 posts
7/27/2005 5:43 am

I was so very fortunate to once have a woman in my life that was open and spontaneous in sharing her desires. Getting those IM's, e-mails or voice mails was breathtaking, often leaving me unable to focus or function (also needed to pull myself close to the desk *blush*). I wish there were words to describe how it feels when all of the sudden in the middle of a quiet afternoon your overwhelmed with by an incredible expression of passion and desire. The realization that someone so special is totally consumed with the most delicious thoughts of you even when your miles apart is so wonderful.

Sure there are times it won't work out but that doesn't mean those feelings are lost at all. They only to further fuel the desire for the next moment.

Openness and sexual assertiveness are very attractive qualities

Life's a journey not a destination

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cinnerella 47F

7/27/2005 9:54 am

TT - I'm with you man, i would never turn down a good offer!

Shebaby23 -I dont know whats with me lately but i do have the clean house scenerio(as CuteAZguy27 so nicely put it!) going on way too often, i think i have to choose my company a little more carefully. Thanks for the wishes

CuteAZguy27 - You're right it was his loss!!!!

Dreamon78 - I wish more men could appreciate those qualities in a woman. Hey, we are sexual beings too. It is too bad that some people see women who express their sexual wants and desires openly as slutty and easy. I can be both, but only when i wanna be!

rm_1echo166 51M

7/27/2005 9:05 pm

Cind... you're making me hot just thinking about it... Damn, getting a text message on what's coming my way would be great. I'd be hard all day just thinking about it.

Lover_Boy663 37M

7/29/2005 7:51 am

cinnerella i feel so sorry for you any guy that would do that just isnt right but if you ever need some one just contact me i would help out if even if i was 2 on the list

cinnerella 47F

7/29/2005 3:34 pm

Lover_boy663 Thanks, i appreciate that offer! I'm thinking maybe i was a little hasty in changing my status to not looking

lickyourpassion 44M
174 posts
8/2/2005 2:28 am

Unfortunately, some men do not find a challenge in the obvious. I have found myself in that position before. It seems that some men (most if they admit it) are extremely curious about someone as long as there is an element of mystery. It can be the same in an encounter if there is some type of wonder involved (or if it is just not obvious and he can imagine there is a chance it won't happen), then it may not sound as inviting. There is still much to be said about the straight forward. I have to respect the honesty and cutting out all of the bs, but foreplay is sometimes the best part of the encounter and not knowing for sure is sometimes (not always) nice. I have been on both sides. It is usually dependant on the girl, who she is, what I like about her, that makes me want mystery or str8 forwardness. U may need 2 evaluate where U R with this guy. Some guys like something serious and others like strings to disappear. HMB sometime. Damn nice pic. Makes me wonder just what went through his mind. His phone must have been lost in an ocean or something. I would have responded to that text if I were him and had a phone, but what tha hell, wasn't me. Hope my words help. Cum by 2 C my blog sumtime.


lickyourpassion 44M
174 posts
8/2/2005 2:29 am


lOOkS LIke i wRoTE A bOOk THerE. sOrrY bOut tHAT.


snake0163 54M
2 posts
8/2/2005 9:24 am

Sorry to he about your friend he seems not to know a good thing when he has it. It's refreshing to know that there are still women out there who are confident enough in there selves to make an offer like you did. Hope he wakes up and realises what he has. If you feel like talking or venting let me know. There are some good places for dinner near you maybe we could meet.

rm_Lucky6377 54M

8/9/2005 1:35 pm

Hey Cin,
I wanted to say I enjoy your blog, stories and am sorry to hear that your boy toy was not available. Go read some of my writings and hope you come back to AdultFriendFinder profiles soon.

lickyourpassion 44M
174 posts
8/16/2005 12:56 am

WHERE DIDJA GO? I just added your blog to my watch list. 1st time I have ever done that and you haven't returned. We miss you already. HMB anytime.


easyblackjack 62M

8/16/2005 8:08 am

Hi Cindy! Sounds to me like you need to get a new friend to see from time to time. Im voluntering! No way would I ever not want you! Nothing is to easy. If you called me I would say cum over, please!

wisconsinbbwfan 41M

10/6/2005 11:39 am

Quite interesting. I myself, well, I wouldn't pass it up, every one you pass up is one you will never get back. We need come of these in the central area, because central wisconsin sucks.

Take care.

oralpleezeru2 53M

10/7/2005 6:42 am

Well cinn all I can say is "hes nuts" you are one fine women that I wish I had the pleasure of knowing. I wish eastern Wis. had more friends like you, by the way how far are you from Manitowoc

cple_sks_bifem 51M/54F
2 posts
10/11/2005 12:02 pm

hi cin i don't know what was the guy's mental problem was but you are way too hot to be turned down other than face down

SeeksCheepJawed 52M
140 posts
10/28/2005 5:59 am

Hi cin,
Would love to chat with you sometime.
Don't know just how we can find a way to get closer.
Any suggestions i'm all ears.

watnpa2 42M
2 posts
10/28/2005 12:27 pm

hey cindy.. i know how you feel and i feel bad for you. just make sure that when he is ready ... YOU FAIL HIM..LOL . it seems to me that most women use"i have a headache..not tonight" or ever in his case. if thats how youfeel but would love to chat sometime cheers to you and those new shoes hon

rm_nicebody211 61M
3 posts
12/28/2005 8:08 am

gosh girl if yer close give me a holler AdultFriendFinder

Notsoshyanymore3 52M

2/19/2006 8:17 am

The guy must not have a sex drive like mine! I love an assertive woman who says what she wants when she wants it! It really drives me wild with passion when a woman is that open! Don't stop asking for what you want! Let me know if you need something!


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