Why do they bother?  

cindi1977 39F
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8/13/2006 12:20 pm

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8/14/2006 8:10 am

Why do they bother?


If you've followed my blog, you'll know that I get weighed down by mails in my inbox. Sometimes I just can't face replying to some of the off the wall stuff that guys write.

I had two great examples today.

The first was titled "handsome London doctor" who wrote:

"would love to show you his, exquisite, bedside manner...Hope so
J***

------ Profile Attached -------

Handsome hung married professional upmarket classy great "O" levels and cyber and phone-sex expert.Big circumcised cock and know how to use it. Blue eyes bluer imagination."

Quite witty I suppose, however if you read my profile or have had a peek at this blog, then I think you would know that approach isn't the way to my heart.

I replied along the lines of hoping that his diagnosis of his patients' ailments was more observant, because he had missed all the clues in my profile.

The second was from a guy from Luxemburg who is in London tonight and would be prepared to meet me if I want. He assures me that he's very clean, good looking, can make me laugh and that he speaks 7 languages.

Wow! There's an offer. Pass me ths sick bag!

ColB74 42M

8/14/2006 3:14 am

Remember AdultFriendFinder is a microcosm of society, there are women out there that probably relish that kind of approach. The fact that they have clearly demonstrated a lack of real interest by not reading your profile shows that they are not really looking for someone with intelligence or standards. Their loss, your blog is an enjoyable read.


cindi1977 39F

8/14/2006 4:03 am

Col, you're right to put an alternatvie viewpoint.

It probably says more about me that I find it difficult to understand how a man (and it is men) would be so inefficient in their use of time by firing off mails without even reading anything about the recipient. Especially when many of us put the effort into profiles and blogs that give some indications of what we find important.

Maybe there are women who are so desperate to get laid that they would be receptive to those approaches. Perhaps it's the guys are so self-assured that they can't imagine a woman would not be charmed by such an approach.

Who knows? Who cares?


ColB74 42M

8/14/2006 4:34 am

Maybe this explanation may help you understand.

Most men will orgasm during sex, no matter what they do. Women however require a lot more stimulation to orgasm. These basic principles are carried forward into the other things we do in life. Men will rush through the contact process as they will probably do when making love. I'd imagine that when a woman initiates contact there is a lot more thought goes into the process?

I'd suggest you are right not to bother or care about these members as they are likely to be a bit of a disappointment anyway if you know what I mean.


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