So tell me...  

chuchotte2 50F
4002 posts
12/28/2005 3:48 am

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So tell me...

In your opinion, what is sex?

Finish the sentence please...

Sex is.....

rm_Razor_21c 53M
1 post
12/28/2005 6:27 am

the extension of love-making. It giving yourself freelly. Giving to all your fantasies and your partners. It's the best joy and freedom of sensations. It should be hot, kinky and verbal. Scream, explode and especially talk dirty.

rm_goddess1946 106F
13518 posts
12/28/2005 8:16 am

an expression of energy most oftentimes expressed through the physical body that connects, creates, pleasures and confuses
in the midst of this thing that we call life.....

sex can also be a definition of terms, of boundaries and a
three letter word

sometimes it is simply a dream in the mind or a memory in the heart.

it always just is what it is.

Just a little food for thought.............
If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you...

OttawaMan43sum 47M
1971 posts
12/28/2005 10:23 am

...a fundamental instinctive expression of living beings, with the intended purpose of creating a next generation of beings. Pleasure is included so as to make it more attractive to engage in.

...part of Maslow's hierarchy of needs.

...lacking in my life.

rm_Xratedfunn 50M/51F
5 posts
12/29/2005 7:17 am

hmmm... very interesting.

that may explain why men are so casual about the thought of having sex with others, where as women would object to their men making love to another woman.

i would agree that sex is selfish (and much more).

and most men have lead pretty selfish sexual lives, starting with pleasing themselves thousands of times starting in their teens.

women (in general, not all) tend to romantasize about physical contact and associate it with love for their partner rather than an event for themselves (a huge generalization i know).

i think that a lot of the women that tune into this site (AdultFriendFinder) are a lot more in touch with themselves physically and emotionally so they can be more focused on their own needs sexually (ie. selfish)... so they can see sex as sex.. not necessarily part of a loving relationship.

speaking with respect to us (it's the man of the couple writing), she is a great place mentally with respect to me, our love, our relationship and our sex lives. that is probably why she is willing to experiment with other partners... she knows it is sex, and not love for another.

that's just a few thoughts early this thursday morning.

i hope others post their thoughts here.. it's a good line of conversation.. i can't wait for my gal to get home later and read it and hopefully some responses.

oh.. one last thought.

sex is good.

rm_zeddy38 50M

12/29/2005 12:21 pm

sex is beautiful when 2 consenting adults decide to play...It can be quick and be long but at the end if the 2 or 3 or 4 parties enjoyed themselves then sex is beautiful ! Long live the sex

RailBaron2 54M

12/31/2005 9:59 pm

Sex is ----- Something I've had to do without for too damn long. Happy New Year

rm_luke69iner 48M
3275 posts
1/1/2006 12:46 pm

Sex is as complex as any other important human interaction

Ideally it's everything from the first glance to the post-orgasmic embrace

Xrated had some great generalized insight on it's gender specific dynamics

As far as the mechanics of it go I'd have to dust off the manual and read up on it because it's been awhile

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rm_VoodooGuru1 49M
2053 posts
1/1/2006 4:40 pm

... a very brief & poor term for something so powerful and with so much potential that it can become anything or nothing at all; it is creation and destruction, and transformation.

Want proof? I'll probably think these words are entirely untrue in a week or two.

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