Shake up Wake up those Saddness by choice  

chocolatcreme 104F
1004 posts
1/7/2006 7:24 pm

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Shake up Wake up those Saddness by choice

It has been a interesting week. This thing about saddness strikes me. Sassy told me this movie about Russian Child Prostitution. I can say this movie is very real, beacause, years ago, someone forward an untitled Eastern Europe Lolitas short movie to me. My heart ache when I saw what the little gal was doing. You come face to face with her lifeless eyes and tiny souless body. Unreal action for a kid to be doing. Those are saddness with no choice. These pitiful souls live in that immoral circuit. Hard for them to leave and so easily trapped in it.

Then there are those who chose to play with saddness. It seems like some people enjoy saddness. Perhaps to gain pity, sympathy - in short - have attention. To these people, I hope they can see that, they chose saddness and hang around them. To take the time and look at those who survive on saddness with no choice. Don't squander the blessings.

Of course, there are those who are in it deep and dunno that they have sunken. These are the ones who resign to their fate and fear to take the first step to pull themselves out.

We cannot deny saddness in life, otherwise, happiness would be taken for granted and that would be like going ahead even though you see a brick wall. Saddness helps us to navigate and make choices.

Life is a whole lot of experiences, don't chose saddness just to gain attention. Life is short, enjoy it, share with friends and learn from their insights.

chocolatcreme 104F
766 posts
1/16/2006 3:35 am

Darkon - U know hippos are killing more human than crocodiles or lions in Africa. I will passed. Prefer pigmy hippos in the zoos.

rm_Darkon33 48M
534 posts
1/14/2006 11:02 am

can you go with me to africa? some of your buddy hippos misses you

chocolatcreme 104F
766 posts
1/14/2006 5:53 am

Darkon -Go Zoo or Africa.

rm_Darkon33 48M
534 posts
1/13/2006 1:51 pm

Hmmm.....can i have a rhino drumstick between 2 hippo hoofs instead?

chocolatcreme 104F
766 posts
1/13/2006 1:14 am

Darkon - Undivided Attention = Deadly Obession. Well said. Natural sandiwich = what do you have in mind? Caterpillar between 2 leaves? Hippo steak between 2 cocao bean?

rm_Darkon33 48M
534 posts
1/12/2006 1:00 am

I am still waiting for my 1st natural sandwich..dont know about the spell part but i know the taste will be grand, choco hippo.

Attention seekers beware of what you wish for. Your wish might just come true tonight, in a dark and cold night where silence engulfs you like the freezing nite winds caresses the dune sand in the desert, you suddenly realise a lady in a white armour trailing you and fear grips you hard like a protective mother over a child, you wonder who is she and what lies beneath that long dark hair. Her face hidden from any piercing light and you are almost reduce to wets in the pants.
You reach the lift lobby and she stands next to you. She suddenly turns to you and asked, how about using my long hair to perk you up tonite darling? We can have a wild whipping nite together and my muscous will drip all over your body like wet hot candle melts. My long curvy bloody fingernails will rip thru your skin and you can chew on my fingernails after that. Undivided attention all night, beware of fatal attraction you so desire

chocolatcreme 104F
766 posts
1/11/2006 2:54 am

Darkon - Gluttony baby. Eat my sandwich and you will be under my spell.
Your last night is well said. Attention can do wonders.

Mynakuruvi - Very true about the effort part. On our own the effort varies. If someone gives u the right attention, it will seem effortless. So it boils down to self again. To move faster without the need for a catalyst. Interesting.

rm_Darkon33 48M
534 posts
1/10/2006 1:32 am

Only one thing has to change for us to know happiness in our lives: where we focus our attention.

Choice of attention - to pay attention to this and ignore that - is to the inner life what choice of action is to the outer. In both cases, a man is responsible for his choice and must accept the consequences, whatever they may be.

Those who are unhappy have no need for anything in this world but people capable of giving them their attention.

rm_mynakuruvi 67M
21 posts
1/9/2006 10:15 pm

watched a tv show last night..on child prostitution in batam supported by singaporeans.. girls fantasise that a knight in shining armor will take them fantasize what they do not get at home.. a few days eralier watched an oprah show about a Minister in US who took a tibetan girl from India and abused her for over 10 years.. morality or lack of it has nothing o do with who you are.. just what you are

if yo seek sadness yo get it.. if you decied to be happy you can be.. it is just a mind shift ...not a game.. but a serious effort..

you seem preoccupied with sadness.. life if taken as it flows is not sad.. uncertain yes.. demanding yes.. but not sad..


rm_Darkon33 48M
534 posts
1/9/2006 9:17 pm

7 Eleven
Quick stop haven
Green Red orange Beacon
Big Gulp, Slurpee for beve pagan
If famish choose the briyani, hotdog bacon
Just place it in the microwave oven
The odor is second heaven
Tho their sandwich is proven
Still they are not my yearn
My choice is definitely Choco bread fusion
Make me one now and forever i am your glutton

chocolatcreme 104F
766 posts
1/9/2006 10:28 am

Salamii - Can't agree more with you.

salamii6699 38M
63 posts
1/9/2006 4:20 am

seems like that gal fren of yours suffer from serious attention deficit syndrome. Get a syringe.. oops i dun mean the injective kind though.

sadness to gain attention will result in more sadness and lesser attention. hahhahah, immunity eventually kicks in some day.

i wish her well and may she come to realise her own foolishness. She is a lot better than people in other countries already.Not to compare to feel good.

But life's is one set of puzzles, problems and sweetness after another. Who knows? the next bout might be more easy going than this one.

once the rough patch is over, greener pasture is in the horizon. Keep hope alive!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

chocolatcreme 104F
766 posts
1/8/2006 9:24 pm

Sassy - Thanks. If you knwo of any good foreign movie let me know. I love those. It is like world travelling without moving.

MSM - Hmm around th world and back with your thoughts. No worries. Thinking is good. I stop thinking when I am sleepy.

Salamii - Very true. Less demand means drop in supply. Demand is there always. Education and moral to curb demand.

Darkon - 7 11.

HLC - I love your quote in pink. You are able to balance negative with positive. That's the way!! .

Misuse of emotion. I have seen someone using saddness and turning desstructive. This gal keeps cutting herself. We try to be around her often, but we have lives of our own to take care of. She is seeking medical help, but most importantly, she has to wake up on her own.

happyladychat 47F
3740 posts
1/8/2006 7:33 pm

Doesn't matter if the person uses happiness or sadness to gain attention.... as long as she/he does not use anger, coz anger can be destructive.

As for me, I'm a pessimist because of intelligence, but an optimist because of will.

Make it your challenge.... turn me ON!!

rm_Darkon33 48M
534 posts
1/8/2006 6:25 am

Ok i chose to be happy. Can i have my happy meal now?
Make a good happy sandwich for me?

mr_simply_me 45M
842 posts
1/8/2006 3:30 am

Last point...

As for this case of child abuse... it is just one of the most cruel form.... There are many other cases... Even in local context... To feel such sadness is good(as u understand the pain)... To support for such causes of preventing the abuses are good (as you help this people to find new life)... I see how we can support the prevention of the abuses is not be part of it.... To prevent it... hmm to educate the next generation... To stop it... It is not possible @ current times... unless our genes get modified...

I know some of my friends are extremists... Don't be.. You may just be as bad as the abusers.... Be level headed and resolve it based on logical and what society deems fair.....

Am I talking or thinking too much then???

salamii6699 38M
63 posts
1/8/2006 2:54 am

Yeah its heartbreaking that the young ones have no other means but to resort to being a pro to eke out a living. Its is perhaps one of the few means which they can live another day. where there is demand, there is bound to be supply.

mr_simply_me 45M
842 posts
1/8/2006 2:49 am


Life is like Ying and Yang....
life is like Synonym and Antonym...

There is ugly and there is Beauty ...
There is saddness and there is happiness...
There is bitter and there is sweet...
There is cruel and there is kind
There is dislike and there is fondness...
There is tears and there is laughter...
There is smelly and there is fragrant
There is hate and there is love...
There is pain and there is pleasure...
There is thieves and there is police...
There is anarchy and there is order....
There is good and there is bad...
There is he and there is she...
There are Ooooos and there ares Ahhsss.....
There is enemy and there is friendship...
There is monochrome and there is colour...
There is death and There is life ...
And the list goes on.....

When a glass is half filled... is it true?? Or is it half filled...

Life and death is equal one... You just which has more and which has less....

The key is balance as you once said... But what we can hope and work for is to reduce the bad and increase the good... But there will be always bad....

In ourselves we have good points and we have bad points
We have strong points and we have weak points
We have emotion and we have logic...
We may have a direction and we can be lost...
Male have penis and women have viginal....
We see a future even if there is a little light...
We may not have a future even the current is bright....

As for insights... I defer in thoughts... We share @ times but @ times one need to experience to understand that experience...

As you said.. live life to the fullest... right or wrong... we just need to move on....

The great thinkers have laid out all this in knowledge.... Is just who we seek??

The devil or the fairy??

Be yourself....
Be relaxed...
and be free....

Don't think too much... my friend...

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