Why is it so hard?  

chiro19642002 59M
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4/27/2005 8:56 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Why is it so hard?

Why is it so hard to answer your e-mail? Common get your minds outta the gutter, you thought I was talking about something else I bet! A couple of weeks ago I posed the following question in the magazine:

I am relatively new here and have replied to at least 30 of the "women looking for men" and possibly 15 for "couples looking for men" and have gotten 2 auto replies. I have gotten one reply from a woman and she replied the same day .
Are people that self involved or just downright rude that they can't even take the time to say "Thanks but not interested."?
I find myself thinking that maybe, just maybe, many of these personals are just people playing out their fantasies without any real intentions of even answering any ads. Maybe it's just me.

I got several answers from, Did I check the last time they were on, not everyone will contact you so you can hook up right away and more.

Funny thing was I did look at the last time they were on the site. I answered their ads because I found something that piqued my interest, not because I was looking to hook up right away.

I'd just like to start some conversations by e-mail, chat or even the phone, as I don't think you can really tell much about a person and their personality and all the other realms of their being from a picture and a few words about how horny they are. Sure the picture and the words about what they are looking for and so on gives you an idea about them but otherwise....I wonder how many nice women may have passed me by and never know if they really missed out on someone that might have been a great addition in their life.

Yes, I have met someone from AdultFriendFinder and we like each other and are enjoying each others company , but it still irks me that out of close to 50 e-mails I sent out I only got two responses.

I know women are in much more demand on AdultFriendFinder then men and I know that the women get swamped with e-mail. At least when I e-mail it is simple, straight forward, correct spelling and grammar and I never send those illustrious dick pictures(I don't even have a pic like that) so many of the men like to send.

Come on ladies, answer your e-mail even if it is just a polite thanks, but not interested.

1sxybytch 51F

4/27/2005 11:49 pm

I totally agree with you. Also like to say,at least you have a decent pic of your face,so everyone knows who you are and what you look like.
As for meeting someone on A.F.F. congrad's....Hope it all works out.
Another little suggestion....Try getting or going to Meet N greets in your city. There a blast. You dont have anything to lose,and you can meet women and men of all ages(well under 99),and its a total safe place to do it in.(as in Bar,restraunt,bowling,etc)Good Luck!!

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