Exactly how does one compete?  

chicagoguy303 39M
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11/25/2005 12:25 pm

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Exactly how does one compete?

This isn't a rant as much as an observation.

There are 12 men for every female profile in Illinois on this site.

If you figure 1 in 4 profiles of women are actually websites looking to sell memberships.

You are looking at about 1 female for every 16 men.

Ok..so the odds are not rediculous.. and frankly are better then some bars I have attended here in Chicago...but they are not good.

But I figure 1 in 16 to find someone interested in something casual, fun...and safe are really not bad odds... so I trudge through hundreds of profiles.. sending my hello ...stats.. would love to chat sometime..messege. And then it hit me!

You notice those hidden photo's at the bottom left-- you know the ones of people in HER network. And I realize I have no chance!

Either the guy is buff as hell! I am by no means heavy -- but I don't have a six pack... I look like your average joe. These guys could be diet coke models.

Then you have the other guy... you know the one who actually needs to purchase Magnums... I mean.. I can do situps..but that is beyond my skills.

So I wonder...what are the real odds on this site? You know if your an attractive but normal guy.


11/25/2005 12:54 pm

Hard to answer this but there is something you do got that no one else has. Don't ask me to that answer to that though. I think you eventually answer that yourself by somehow letting your truest self be shown.

And I can't answer how to do that either. I'll let you know if I find out though.



sleeplessknight1 68M

11/25/2005 2:04 pm

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Hi chicagoguy....
and blogging can help yu can impress people with your wit, intelligence and humour.... well that what I told myself

have fun


Hope you have fun in the land of Blog.
You arrived just in time for the Christmas festivities,
so have a great one, when it arrives....

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- See the link here bloggers of this friendly site, its been around since
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ticktock500 44M

11/25/2005 2:49 pm

not to be a downer, but doesn't that work out to be one in forty eight? (math never was my thing) if you think that's bad check out my neighborhood, almost anything with a picture is fake. as for the dick pic thing, think of it like porn (where you almost never measure up to what's on film)-big ones get all the screen time. i prefer the "eyes only shot"-very deep. chicks dig it. after all, what it's attached to is what really counts.

that's what i tell myself anyway.

RodTender 46M
140 posts
11/25/2005 7:54 pm

chicagoguy303, the mere presence of Rod Tender (in all His sublime radiance) often blinds the sexy ladies to even the possibility that other men exist. It is your good fortune, however, that Rod Tender, though 110% man, is, nonetheless, a single individual, and He does not reside in the Chicago area.

chicagoguy303 39M
39 posts
11/25/2005 8:25 pm

Ticktock math was never my strong point...you may be right.. but 1 in 16 sounds more achievable... so i am going to pretend i was right!

chicagoguy303 39M
39 posts
11/26/2005 12:11 pm

Very fortunte in deed ROD!!! If you did -- no doubt I would be done with this site!

KC_JJ - I am sure there is great advice in there.. but I am lost.

Thanks ShaneDK -- I don't understand that age thing myself... Since posting this blog - I got a network request from a couple - one was 25 the other 51 -- so exactly what is thier suitable age?

And for the record... the red rose in the background was from a club. I had clothes on that matched that corner of the place (didn't plan that). Friend thought it was a cool picture... She is gone but the picture still remains.

FitNtastey2 45F

4/13/2009 7:26 pm

Chin up Chi Guy 303. I found you! I was drawn to you by your wit, intelligence and sexy-as-hell profile pic! As you said in one of your blog posts, naked isn't always sexiest.

I, too, have lovely pictures in the lower left corner of my profile; the common denominator amongst all of them, however, is the same trifecta you seem to have. What a turn on!

PS This has been quite an education reading your posts.....fake profiles, fake cock shots.....hmmm~ I wonder what else this newbie is unaware of? LOL

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