Age is just a number , but...  

chemistbb3 61M  
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4/3/2005 10:18 am

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Age is just a number , but...


We all have an optimal age range we are looking at for a potential partner. Most seem to be looking in a 10 year range (+ or - 5 years of their age. My range, as stated in my Cupid Settings is 40 to 55. It is a range I use since generally I should have more life experiences in common with ladies in this age group. It does not mean I would just ignore someone out side this range just because of their age. I have found some ladies younger and older that this range that I have been attracted to and have a lot in common with. I do my best not to rule any Lady out as a possible match just because of their age.

I can understand the ladies at the lower end of my age range looking for someone younger than I am and ladies at the upper end looking for someone older as a general rule for them. It is the ones close to my age looking for younger men, 20's and 30's, that I am having an issue with. OK, it is a MILF thing and men have been doing the younger women - older man thing for years, but still, it is cutting into the group of women I may have an interest in. Maybe it is the youth, stamina, and quicker recovery thing with a younger man, maybe it is a self confidence thing or an ego thing. (For men I think the ego thing is the foremost driver.) Me, I want a more mature woman with the experience that normally comes with age. The mature form that an older woman has is exciting to me. (Not that I do not like to look at a young "hard body" on occasion or rule them completely out.) It is sort of a disappointment to see a profile of a Lady I have in interest in, who is about my age and seem to have similar interest and see where she is only interested in someone "21 to 35". It is their preference I know and I will not try to convince them that I am what they "really want". But still...

keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
4/3/2005 6:43 pm

Count me in the "desires mature woman" category too.


themanXXX 24M
7 posts
7/30/2013 11:02 am

Quite interesting to know about that.


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