Ya learn somthin  

cheddarguy60 56M
8 posts
11/6/2005 11:10 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Ya learn somthin


First, I was wrong. Let me get that out of the way. I'm guilty, guilty, guilty.

What was I wrong about? Well, I was firing off notes to people on my Cupid Report. I sent out eight. Two came back (spammers) and six had the text stripped (spammers).

Then I sent out the ninth. I had absoultely no intention of pissing anyone off. The photo with the ad had a good clear resolution. You saw the tops of a pair of shoulders, a neck, part of a chin, and a spot of hair on the top. The face was obliterated with an arc of white.

Not a problem. I don't have my photo on-line either - but it seemed odd that you'd put up a photo that really showed nothing at all. So I sent off a note commenting that the picture was sort of okay, but the lone ranger mask needed to be worked on.

That was it. About 12 words.

Anyway I received a reply that used 'A-hole' about six or seven times and she made it pretty darned clear she didn't have a sense of humor.

I had never received an AdultFriendFinder e-mail with such utter rage or even hatred. But just about the time I was formulating a reply, it dawned on me, the lady was right.

Everyone (myself included) can tense up with criticism. I figure I made the mistake of sending a note at all, or at least of not using smilies. I also might have been the 50th guy to comment on it.

So the lesson here is if it isn't positive, don't say it. At least not in a first, second, or third e-mail!

Anyone sell asbestos undies? Mine burned right through.

sleeplessknight1 68M

11/6/2005 1:29 pm

uh oh.... well yu learnt an important lesson...
and thanks for the advice....
did yu try to apologise???

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cheddarguy60 56M
50 posts
11/7/2005 3:13 am

Good question - nope - her e-mail said I should never contact her again. I suspect she'd just delete it before reading it, anyway.


rm_lickmepretty 51F
851 posts
11/18/2005 11:00 pm

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