Is anal sex hot, or does it just hurt, like hell?  

charismasix 44M
20 posts
5/19/2005 9:08 pm

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5/22/2006 8:03 pm

Is anal sex hot, or does it just hurt, like hell?

I have done a number of things as far as sex goes. Making love outside, oral, lots of positions and places.

One thing I have never done, and really don't know that I want to, is anal. I think that anal would really hurt a woman, or anyone for that matter. I was a little curious so I wrote to a couple who do anal and groups.

She said anal hurt like hell. I guess I don't get it. I understand wanting to please your partner but, if something always hurts no matter how many times you do - I would feel bad hurting my love.

firecrotch32 45F  
30 posts
5/19/2005 9:48 pm

if anal is done right it does not hurt. at the beginning there may be some mild discomfort but nothing excrusiating. the trick is this: plenty of lube of course and taking it really slow on the inital entry. it may take up to 15 minutes to get your cock fully in her ass (depends how strong a spphincter reaction she has) once u push the head of your cock in and feel the sphincter tighten up DO NOT MOVE! apply just enough pressure to keep yourself from being pushed out but not so much that u r pushing deeper. then u wait....once her feel her sphincter relax u can push in a little bit more until u feel it tighten again...keep repeating this process until u r fully seated in her ass. then SLOWLY start stroking in and not quicken the pace until u she lets u know it ok do to so (her pushing her ass back into u is always a good indicator of if u push too soon during entry or push too hard and fast before she is ready u will end up causing small tears in the rectum and after that the whole experience is just painful. if a guy does it right anal sex can be very enjoyable for a just requires patiuence on the guy. some pointers that can help....use some smaller objects at 1st to "prime" her ass for your cock such as your finger and working up to some small dildos (they have anal prep kits in porn shops for just this purpose)...also stimulating her clit (or she can do it) helps during intial entry by helping her relax quicker and concentrate on what does feel good (her clit getting diddled). i have also found that on my back is best for relaxing during initial entry and then moving to the doggie style only have we r starting to really go at it. with this knowledge go forth and fuck some ass!

rm_hotsexyslut2 45F
9 posts
6/26/2005 6:44 pm

Anal sex is the great! just look for the right partner and prepare yourself (including mentally). Use lots of lube and take your time.

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