Guys, what is happening?  

cdninsc 44F
11 posts
11/28/2005 6:33 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Guys, what is happening?


It seems to be that there is a major difference between Canadian and US men. It's not like there are no men in Canada. I lived in Canada for 31 years, lived in the States for 2 years, and am back in Canada now.

Most of the guys in the US (at least in South Carolina, North Carolina, Georgia....the South) don't play games. They see someone on here that they like and they email, then meet, etc. They flirt in public, are much more open to sex, call when you ask them to.

Here in Canada (specifically Eastern Ontario) the guys are completely lame! I get a handful of emails a month from guys who just want to chat online, refuse to pick up the freaking phone (maybe they forgot how to use one), they seem to be afraid of sex and the variety it can bring.

As I started out saying in my last paragraph, here in Canada I get a handful of emails per month where in the Southern US I got upwards of 30-50+ emails a DAY! I don't understand it.

norprin5 55M

11/28/2005 7:41 pm

wish i could help you out, cdninsc. all i can offer you is email & chat, 'cuz i never get that far east. maybe you should come out west - we're not scared of girls here!

King Nor XVIII


b2dbone 30M
6 posts
11/28/2005 9:23 pm

Guess that's why I moved to the South.. I hear that CDN guys like to, how can I say this politely, go down during 'that time of the month"

Heard that from 3 Canadian GF's, whom I consider a pretty accurate source...

good luck cdninsc - and go leafs!!


b2dbone 30M
6 posts
11/28/2005 9:27 pm

oops I mean disparaissent les sens!!!!


cdninsc 44F

11/29/2005 7:57 pm

Yeah I hear the same complaint from guys too. The women are all talk but when it comes to meeting, they have to wash their hair. I think it depends on a number of things. Yes, there are a lot of women who think this is what they want to do but when push comes to shove, they bolt. If you're not interested, you're not interested...period but tell the person that. But guys...believe it or not, some of us women lead really hectic lives, such as you do, and may not have the time right NOW. I'll be the first one to admit that I have several people in a MUST REPLY TO folder in my AdultFriendFinder mail but with a husband, daughter, court custody case happening, just lost my job, etc...haven't had too much of a chance these past couple of weeks to get back to people that I know I should. Doesn't mean I'm not thinking of them or not interested, I just have to know I have secure time.


cdninsc 44F

11/29/2005 8:01 pm

As for my above post...I would like to add a tidbit to it that may be useful for you men out there (EVERYWHERE).

Us women ask for a couple of things to be met...criteria such as age. Follow the logic:

A woman of 25 requests a man age 18 - 33 and she gets a ton of messages from men who are mid to late 40's or 50+. That's NOT what she asked for.

She may also say she wants someone local up to 50 miles away and gets 60 year old men who live over 300 miles away.

She wants to meet...they want to cyber or have phone sex.

When that happens repeatedly, it gets to the point where she is trying to be nice and not wanting to hurt someone's feelings.


cdninsc 44F

11/29/2005 8:18 pm

Let me relate a small story of my own "First Time AdultFriendFinder Meeting". I met this man on AdultFriendFinder and things went well in a couple of conversations. I knew he was a massage student and needed people to practice on so I volunteered...I love massages and would have gone regardless of what this guy looked like. Anyway as the day approached, and knowing how I met him, not knowing what to expect or what would happen I became incredibly nervous. I was somewhat relieved when a situation at home arose where I had to rebook my massage session. It was rebooked for about a week later. The day slowly approached and again I was nervous but was full of excitement...a classic adrenaline rush! I arrived at his house and we chatted for a bit then he showed me to the massage room with a massage table, soft relaxing music, candles, etc. He left the room while I stripped down to all but a thong. He was a complete professional...no hands went where they shouldn't have gone. It was incredible. Then I did something I haven't done in years, I made the first move. That was back in March. We, although separated by about 900 miles, still talk all the time, still chat in MSN, and even met in Buffalo for a weekend together a few weeks ago.

Anyway...where was I going with this...that made me lose my train of thought. Oh yeah, well after meeting Medic (one of my testimonials), I wasn't afraid anymore. Not only did I meet people I was interested in, I introduced a couple of men (SEPARATELY) into what it's like to have a threesome with 2 women, and one of the men I introduced to the swingers scene in an adult "on-premise" club I worked at.

So not all of us are fakes.


letuscum232 53M

1/5/2006 9:28 am

Hey! there, just want to say that i love good sex, i like to use toys with/on my partner and i,m open to any other turn-ons my partner might have. A womans pleasure is such a turn-on, i can spend hours just pleasing her. I,m not sure about the phone comment but why wouldn,t i phone a HOT! woman who enjoys FUCKING up a storm with me. The reason i don,t Email many is either because response is not good at the site or i,m not a paying member. If it don,t except PayPal i don,t join. Anyway! thats my 2 cents on the topic,LOL!. take care!...


letuscum232 53M

1/5/2006 9:31 am

Hey! there, just want to say that i love good sex, i like to use toys with/on my partner and i,m open to any other turn-ons my partner might have. A womans pleasure is such a turn-on, i can spend hours just pleasing her. I,m not sure about the phone comment but why wouldn,t i phone a HOT! woman who enjoys FUCKING up a storm with me. The reason i don,t Email many is either because response is not good at the site or i,m not a paying member. If it don,t except PayPal i don,t join. Anyway! thats my 2 cents on the topic,LOL!. take care!... [post155952]


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