so, what are YOU looking for?  

catkit13 66F
1257 posts
6/1/2006 8:14 pm

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so, what are YOU looking for?

not just sex, that much is obvious - but what do you want to see when you look at your lady? and what is she seeing when she smiles back at you? women want to know these things, you know . . .

funintheday2006 56M
9659 posts
6/1/2006 9:20 pm

ooo, this is an excellent one, knew youd be worth watching!
What I want to see : A smile that says your my man and I want nothing else.
What I want her to see: The answer to her questions of life and love and someone who she just knows will be there for her, whatever.
Is it really that simple?

catkit13 replies on 6/1/2006 10:14 pm:
it should be that simple, don't you think? but, alas, it never is! i outgrew game-playing years ago, but most of the men i've met haven't caught up to me yet . . . but i know, just know, he's out there! how's your luck been with the women you've met?

rm_mariner464 70M
40 posts
6/1/2006 9:46 pm

Catkitt13:Whe I look at her I would like to see someone I can relate to; feel comfortable with (looks & figure are not important);someone who is sure of themselves, she knows who & what she is. Someone who knows why I'm there, understands, & is comfortable.
She would see a caring & eager mate, responsive to her mood & feelings. A gentle lover, one who can make love (versus some jerk who wants a quickie).I hope she would see ME, the real me!
That's the best I can do to say it.

catkit13 replies on 6/1/2006 10:19 pm:
so, what kind of luck have you had on this site (or others) looking for your friend with benefits? i know that, personally, i don't have much interest in meeting married or separated me, because i'd really like to form a long-term relationshp . . .
but making new friends is always a good thing, i think
thanks for the reply!

funintheday2006 56M
9659 posts
6/1/2006 11:05 pm

Oh cat! You aint read the blog of my meets??
There are 2 there, one still sort of ongoing.
Its a fact that my luck is not enviable!!
The blogs entitled This site can seriously damage youtr health and Second meet, whats on my forehead should tell you how my luck has been! Might even make you smile!
Hope your search is going well, keep at it, he IS there!

rm_mariner464 70M
40 posts
6/19/2006 10:48 pm

What type of luck .... one meet so far .... but one that was worthwhile.

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