ok, i need some advice from you all  

catkit13 66F
1257 posts
6/27/2006 4:39 pm

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12/26/2006 9:56 am

ok, i need some advice from you all

i've been emailing back and forth with a man on this site - i know who he is, a (younger) cutie!, but he doesn't know who i am. he's interested in getting together, knowing that i know him, but i'm hesitant . . . first, i guess i'm a little embarrassed, but i don't know why, i just am, about being on this site, especially when i've always wanted more than to just get laid (that's always been the easy part)
next, he's 12+ years younger than i am, which bothers me for some reason
on the up side, he's very interested in my sexual interests, tho inexperienced in what i want
finally, he thinks we can meet and just be friends, if nothing else
comments, my friends?

rm_Ellenback 58F
966 posts
6/27/2006 5:27 pm

What's to be embarrassed about? He's on this site, just like you...and if you're clear with him about the 'more than just getting laid' part, and you can overcome your hesitation about his age, give it a shot...what have you got to lose? Is there a way to shield yourself so that even if you do meet up with him, he won't recognize you? Nothing ventured, nothing gained, though...don't worry about the losses, they all pile up to a mountain pretty soon anyways~!



funintheday2006 56M
9659 posts
6/27/2006 5:29 pm

Cat, theres no point in coming on a site like this, letting it all habg out and then not seeing things through. Bugger the age difference and the fact that you know him. Hes on this site too and thats a different world to the bodily inhabited one. Get off your backside woman and go for it, whats the worst that can happen? See, all goes tits up, come back, start again. You'll have regrets otherwise and I dont think your thetype to live with that

puntachueca 105M

6/27/2006 6:14 pm

Go for it....you have nothing to lose but your panties.

red_hot_trucker 58F

6/27/2006 7:45 pm

hello, this is 2006, not 1956. What is the problem? Clearly it is in your head, not in what is really going on, and the real world. Who cares? He's on this site? He's opened the door for you. Go for it,,,,

Now, on to the age thing,,,first let me guide you to maggieswishes blog, (sorry, not too adept in making a link here for you to do so) and check out her post on age. It's titled 'Back in the fast lane', if my memory serves me right. One of the first things to go as you get older is the mind,,,what was that I was saying,,,

Oh, yea, age. Let not age deter you in your endeavors. Some of my most memorable sexual experiences were with men half my age, (shhhhh, or better), and some long term friendships as well.

Bottom line, enjoy today for today! Yesterdays is the past, tomorrow is the future, and today is the present. Enjoy the gift!!!

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catkit13 66F

6/27/2006 7:56 pm

thanks to all of you for the needed kick in the ass! of course, you're all right and i'm still an idiot - so, my next email will be to my cutie friend . . . thanks again, cat

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