has anyone figured out this site yet???  

catkit13 66F
1257 posts
7/25/2006 12:40 am

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has anyone figured out this site yet???


hey, friends - i just don't understand this site! i'm limited in the number of profiles i can view as a standard member; i can't wink at anyone; but i was able to email a blogville friend of mine . . . i don't get it!
can anyone explain this to me???

update: i was just able to send an email to someone i couldn't wink at - i REALLY don't get it!

Gossip_Anyone 41F

7/25/2006 1:38 am

u have to claim a spot on bloggerville for free rights.


papyrina 51F
21133 posts
7/25/2006 1:43 am

as a standard you can reply up to 0 emails aday,chat blog.groups.magazine and network.
if you get a certain amout of people veiwing your profile ,slowly but surely you can get to see profiles.
Also on the home page is the point system which enables you to accumilate points to see profiles,write mail,ect

I find its quicker and easier and yep its cheating but what the hell we're women,go into the fullest chat rooms,and if your not into chatting just say a simple hi all,wait for a few mins and leave again,or turn on your cam for twenty mins showing some body part and no it doesn't have to be naked and from doing that you will get folk looking at your profile

Works for me lol,i chat and cam often so i get to see profiles,send mail and winks ,
Good luck


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i'm here to stay


catkit13 66F

7/25/2006 2:04 am

    Quoting Gossip_Anyone:
    u have to claim a spot on bloggerville for free rights.
do you mean pay to play? don't wanna do that, but i AM an active blogger - doesn't that get me any points? and btw, thanks for stopping by!


catkit13 66F

7/25/2006 2:05 am

    Quoting papyrina:
    as a standard you can reply up to 0 emails aday,chat blog.groups.magazine and network.
    if you get a certain amout of people veiwing your profile ,slowly but surely you can get to see profiles.
    Also on the home page is the point system which enables you to accumilate points to see profiles,write mail,ect

    I find its quicker and easier and yep its cheating but what the hell we're women,go into the fullest chat rooms,and if your not into chatting just say a simple hi all,wait for a few mins and leave again,or turn on your cam for twenty mins showing some body part and no it doesn't have to be naked and from doing that you will get folk looking at your profile

    Works for me lol,i chat and cam often so i get to see profiles,send mail and winks ,
    Good luck
thanks for the info, i'll try it! (tho i don't have a cam, i can chat with almost anyone about almost anything )
thanks for stopping by, cat


tracy_de_lacy 105F
9268 posts
7/25/2006 4:45 am

you should be able to wink at people all standard members can do this. they only restrict the emails. You can also invite people to your network.

If ya can't wink you have to email AdultFriendFinder through help. There is something wrong with your profile.

I met my boyfriend cos I winked at him and I was a standard at the time......he was silver and he mailed me.


Bye everyone, it was a blast


catkit13 66F

7/25/2006 6:58 am

    Quoting tracy_de_lacy:
    you should be able to wink at people all standard members can do this. they only restrict the emails. You can also invite people to your network.

    If ya can't wink you have to email AdultFriendFinder through help. There is something wrong with your profile.

    I met my boyfriend cos I winked at him and I was a standard at the time......he was silver and he mailed me.
thanks for the info - i'll contact AdultFriendFinder today!


pseudonorm 60M

7/25/2006 4:45 pm

As I see it, a std member can wink at up to 10 other (any level) members per day. I just sent two to cat, so you CAN do more than once to a member. In order to get the option of winking, the other member's listing has to show up as a "matching view" or as someone who has viewed your profile AND isn't viewing in "stealth mode"! Confused? Really? By modifying your cupid filter to encompass a larger group of matches, more possibilities will present. Or as Papyrina suggests, chat or cam to entice others to view you, then they'lll be at least winkable. All this winking ain't squat, tho. What you want is email... two way commnication. A std member can either REPLY to an email sent by a paying member or accumulate points to allow a VERY LIMITED number of emails to be sent. THEN, the receiver has to allow "standard members can contact me" (pay up buddy, not included in GOLD either). It's quite an ordeal, but as I've said the std membership is worth everything you've paid for!

Now what I don't get is how I, as a std , can still see SOME profiles (GOLD? w/std contact?). Meanwhile , if this comment makes it past the censors, keep blogging, it's still free!


rm_kelli4u2dew 41F
5220 posts
7/25/2006 5:24 pm

One trick is if there's a guy you want to contact, put him in your hotlist. Women may not pay too much attention to who views their profile, but believe me, a man notices. Then he'll email you.


catkit13 66F

7/25/2006 5:29 pm

    Quoting pseudonorm:
    As I see it, a std member can wink at up to 10 other (any level) members per day. I just sent two to cat, so you CAN do more than once to a member. In order to get the option of winking, the other member's listing has to show up as a "matching view" or as someone who has viewed your profile AND isn't viewing in "stealth mode"! Confused? Really? By modifying your cupid filter to encompass a larger group of matches, more possibilities will present. Or as Papyrina suggests, chat or cam to entice others to view you, then they'lll be at least winkable. All this winking ain't squat, tho. What you want is email... two way commnication. A std member can either REPLY to an email sent by a paying member or accumulate points to allow a VERY LIMITED number of emails to be sent. THEN, the receiver has to allow "standard members can contact me" (pay up buddy, not included in GOLD either). It's quite an ordeal, but as I've said the std membership is worth everything you've paid for!

    Now what I don't get is how I, as a std , can still see SOME profiles (GOLD? w/std contact?). Meanwhile , if this comment makes it past the censors, keep blogging, it's still free!
of course it doesn't make sense - nothing on this site does, at least to me, lol
i tried to wink back at you but couldn't, so i emailed you, which did go thru! i wonder how many languages i can learn to say "i just don't get it" in? lol
thanks for stopping by when you do, i look forward to your comments
cat


catkit13 66F

7/25/2006 7:50 pm

    Quoting rm_kelli4u2dew:
    One trick is if there's a guy you want to contact, put him in your hotlist. Women may not pay too much attention to who views their profile, but believe me, a man notices. Then he'll email you.
thanks again for good info, kelli - no wonder so many admire you!


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