the ex - the short version - opinions welcome  

catastrophegirl 40F
975 posts
3/9/2006 1:41 pm

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3/16/2006 10:44 pm

the ex - the short version - opinions welcome


last night/this morning i got information from my ex fiance, mike, from whom i hadn't really heard/seen in over a decade. he's moving to chapel hill this summer and wants to hang out and get reacquainted.

i told him that there's a lot in that to think about and i'll get back to him. well, he did email me last year and apologize for treating me poorly and taking me for granted. i suppose we could try to be friends?

sassybelle21 32F
13313 posts
3/9/2006 2:13 pm

You could try but if he starts getting nasty and doing crappy shit, shut him off your life forever Just be careful and never ever fall in love with this dude again. Don't let history repeats itself twice.


midlomale2005 61M

3/9/2006 2:22 pm

You can give him a chance...but just be very careful....go by instinct...if you have any doubts..stop seeing him. People do change...maybe he has discovered you were the best thing in his life...just took some time to learn it.


rm_trinccpl 38M/39F

3/9/2006 5:04 pm

Sounds as though you've got your head right on the whole situation- kudos to you!


rm_trinccpl 38M/39F

3/9/2006 9:28 pm

Maybe he's grown up since then as well and has learned how to properly care for velvet...


rm_lucky125125 47M
91 posts
3/13/2006 8:27 am

If you could have been friends, you would have been when you broke-up. You would have been able to go to the friends place then if the both of you could truely be friends. Theres to much conflict otherwise. It just doesn't work. Sounds like he is trying to line things up so he wont be alone.


rm_lucky125125 47M
91 posts
3/16/2006 10:52 am

Curiousity did what to the cat?


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