catastrophegirl 40F
975 posts
5/18/2005 11:02 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm


why do some guys seem to have such a hard time understanding that i'm not interested in meeting them for immediate sex?
i keep getting emails from guys that indicate that they want to meet me for a one night stand, in a hotel room or car and go at it right away. a) i don't know you, b) i don't know where you've been or what you've got, c) i'm not wired that way. I need to feel secure about the situation before i can be aroused by it. me wondering if you are trying to lure me somewhere to kill me or something does NOT turn me on. there may be some women who get off on that, but not me.

rm_4nik8_4u 61M
2501 posts
5/18/2005 1:34 pm

Duh, can you repeat that? If you say in you profile that you're not into one night stands people should just get it, but many don't. Also, standard members can't check your profile to see what you're looking for so that adds the responses. A lot of people play the odds figuring the more they ask the better the chance that they'll get lucky! Try to have fun and don't let the dickheads get in the way.

keystonenc 42M
144 posts
5/27/2005 1:26 pm

Heaven forbid anyone take the time to get to know someone. Speaking from experience I have found that the sex I have had with someone I knew and had a personal connection with was for more fulfilling than the sex I have had with someone I barely knew. Don't get me wrong it was fun and all but being with someone I knew and cared about made it mean that much more to me.

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