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so my friend had this great party last night and of course i went.
lots of fun, good music, and a bunch of people i didn't know.
so i met new people, including a pretty cute guy.
we talked off and on for a few hours, and i could tell he was kind of interested. around 5 a.m. he asked if i wanted to head back to his place with him to hang out.
i still wasn't sure i was up for it. then he did something. just one stupid little thing:
a bunch of us were sitting on the steps and the walls next to the steps outside the house. and of course the party had been going on for about 7 hours at this point, so there were lots of beer bottles and plastic cups sitting around on the wall he was sitting on. i was standing.
apparently he decided he was going to make space to sit on the wall next to him. so he took a bunch of the plastic cups and stacked them together. now if he had just quit there it would have been fine. but no, he decided that the appropriate move to clear stuff out of my way was to drop these plastic cups into the bushes on the other side of the wall.
that was a move so amazingly rude and disrespectful that i was absolutely stunned. even if he didn't already know (which he did) that this was my friend's house (he followed some other people there, he didn't know the house's occupants) there was no need to make the mess worse.
for one dumbass move he totally lost any chance of me respecting him. not just the rudeness, but a move like that makes me wonder what shit is lying around behind his furniture.
guys can be so stupid
7/24/2005 1:40 pm
What a Jerk ! As you were stunned, what did you do next ? did you continue to talk to him in dissapointment of his actions ? did you walk back in the house, what happened next ?|