the swingers life  

cassy065 51F
14 posts
8/13/2006 12:11 pm

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10/15/2006 12:00 pm

the swingers life


how do you tell your live in boyfriend about your new life style of swinging? is there a gantle way ? is there a proper way to invite him without him being offended? HELP my time is running out and i dont plan on giving up the the life style anytime soon>>>>>>>>>>>>CASSY

steelheadfish 52M

8/19/2006 4:17 am

Just tell him, if it is the lifestyle you want to live an he wants no part of it........well.bye. But believe me, if it is gonna benefit him also sexually, he should not have a problem with it. Hey email me and we can talk some more about this!


theshot2000 61M
24 posts
8/19/2006 8:40 am

It is always best to let the partner know what ou want. Let him decide if they can hang or not. Be ready to accept the consequences.


rm_Mrdoright11 68M
14 posts
9/5/2006 9:27 am

Hey there; I agree with theshot2000, his point is well taken particularly regarding the possible consequences. Think about it for just a second, most of our lives we make decisions based on our personal needs. There is nothing wrong with that philosophical concept, however the practical application of the process of needs satisfaction sometimes becomes problematic. Trust your instinct, if your live-in partner is important to you show him how the lifestyle change can benefit him. Ultimately you can both benefit from the diverse adjustment in your personal arrangements, it should be a Win,Win for all involved....


cassy065 51F

9/5/2006 5:55 pm

thanks 4 responding Mrdoright hell with a handle like that i can only do what is right thanks alot


cassy065 51F

10/1/2006 1:56 pm

thank u all 4 such great advice i still have not decided yet as 2 what it is that i am going 2 do but when i figure it out i will surely post it thanks again cassy


cassy065 51F

10/15/2006 12:00 pm

well i will have everyone 2 know that i did mention the life style and he said that he was down 4 whatever it is that makes me happy , but i am still not satisfied , because i dont want him 2 do it 4 me only but i want him 2 do it 4 himself as well.<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<cassy


rm_videofan40 61M/56F

11/8/2006 3:01 pm

He may be doing it for himself too out of curiosity, both of you discuss your fantasies with each other before starting out. If you have one in common, then let that be your first one to break in your first experience.


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