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What We're Into...
What We're Into...
What Are You Into? It's a common question during internet IM conversations. Paul was online recently talking to another guy (who was presumably the male half of a couple) and was confronted with the "What are you into?" question. Below is a (slightly) edited version of the conversation. Carissa, when she saw it, said, "that's a quite revealing interchange." Upon re-reading, Paul agreed and we decided to put it here for anybody to read and for us to refer to when folks ask "The Question"
(remember Paul is talking)
other guy: what are you into?
carissaandpaul2: okay...here's our deal...
carissaandpaul2: we are very much committed to each other...
carissaandpaul2: we play occasionally with others...
carissaandpaul2: we like "non-pushy" folks...folks who are laid back...who "go with the flow". We're not looking for people who meerly want to "notch the bedpost".
carissaandpaul2: we've done MFM and FMF and MFMF...
carissaandpaul2: we'd love to find a couple in which both partners were bi.
carissaandpaul2: we always play together...
carissaandpaul2: always same room...
carissaandpaul2: we like to stay "connected" during sex...even if we're screwing other people...
other guy: I fully understand..
carissaandpaul2: our ideal would be four on a bed...everybody playing with everybody else...lick a boob or a butt or a cock or a cunt...whatever body part presents itself...
other guy: sounds like fun.. a body buffet... and I'm hungry!! lol
carissaandpaul2: sometimes three would gang up on one...
carissaandpaul2: sometimes the women would play with each other and the men would play with each other...
carissaandpaul2: sometimes all four...
other guy: Im rock hard just thinkig of what we could do!! carissaandpaul2: before sex...and after...there would be fun and laughter...good conversation...
carissaandpaul2: friendships would be forged...
carissaandpaul2: there would be times when we might all just go to Sauvie Island...no sex...
carissaandpaul2: or out to dinner...
carissaandpaul2: or dancing...
carissaandpaul2: then there would be other times when we'd all have "rock your world" sex.
other guy: I know what you mean, friends in more ways than one!
other guy: so, about YOU... what turns you on about a man?
carissaandpaul2: well, the turn on is more intellectual than physical...
carissaandpaul2: I have to like the guy...
other guy: I'm the same way in a sense
carissaandpaul2: I guess the question would really be what would turn me off...
carissaandpaul2: grossly overweight is a turnoff...
carissaandpaul2: body oder is a turn off
carissaandpaul2: feedback, physical and aural is a turn on...
other guy: Yes, all valid turn offs!!
carissaandpaul2: Not to be a snob...but I like people who have a bit of education and can talk intellegently on a number of subjects... that's a turn on...
carissaandpaul2: people with strongly held opinions, religious or political, are a turn off.
carissaandpaul2: I like folks who can see and appreciate gray areas.
other guy: I know what you mean
and then the conversation drifted on to other things...
1/2/2007 10:39 am
Great post! You sound like us...|
Herb & Pinkie
5/20/2007 11:59 am
wow we couldnt have put it any better..sounds like a fun time|
8/12/2007 12:07 pm
hello, please come into our circle of friends.|
my cam, Ludwig202, thank.
you are a beautiful woman.
8/21/2009 6:51 pm
What a blog you have. Very specific but lets one know wherein they stand. I love it! We are way over here in eastern Oregon where there is really not much action and not much selection. We are very choosy and are very impressed by the two of you. You seem to be very classy people.Would you be interested in getting together sometime soon if we can work it out. I'd hate to see a great opportunity go to waste. Let us know what you think. The Pudleys|
3/12/2012 1:59 pm
Awesome post C&P....I think I'll do something like that on my profile! My profile is very detailed, but doesn't explain everything,,,,,if I do what you two did with your blog, that'll explain even more! I'm sure people will still have questions though....lol But, that helps to keep the conversation going! Tom|
4/8/2012 2:44 pm
You are such a nice & good looking couple. And the distance we are apart it say's is 0 miles. I know it's more than that but it would be nice to find out what it actually is. I'm almost the same age as you at 60.|
I am open pretty much to doing different things. I am also new at talking to people on AdultFriendFinder, but I need to learn how & what I should be able to do.
I look forward to your response.