Go ahead, call me a bitch...  

carebearluv2 42F
1267 posts
3/15/2006 7:39 pm

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3/18/2006 10:20 pm

Go ahead, call me a bitch...

When I stand up for myself and my beliefs, they call me a bitch.

When I stand up for those I love, they call me a bitch.

When I speak my mind, think my own thoughts or do things my own way,they call me a bitch.

Being a bitch means I won't compromise what's in my heart. It means I live my life MY way. It means I won't allow anyone to step on me.

When I refuse to tolerate injustice and speak against it, I am defined as a bitch.

The same thing happens when I take time for myself instead of being everyone's maid, or when I act a little selfish.

It means I have the courage and strength to allow myself to be who I truly am and won't become anyone else's idea of what they think I "should" be. I am outspoken, opinionated and determined. I want what I want and there is nothing wrong with that!

So try to stomp on me, try to douse my inner flame, try to squash every ounce of beauty I hold within me. You won't succeed.

And if that makes me a bitch, so be it. I embrace the title and am proud to bear it.

rm_Gentle12553 67M
1378 posts
3/15/2006 8:21 pm

Actually you have used the incorrect word...The word you seek is "Character!"

My sweet one you have character....Never stoop down to some one else's level....stand tall, your chest out and let others rise to your standards...

You only have one person is this life to please: YOU!

You can't control the emotions, thoughts, actions, desires or reaction of other people....You can only control those things in you...

Sooo the motto of life..."FUCK EM!"

honestandreal30 41F

3/15/2006 10:00 pm

i understand your point and can relate with why you wrote this. it always seems to come back to that one thing, no matter what we do, which way we try to go, always manages to come back to being a bitch. not a label some would give to certain actions yet the label still gets applied. call us a bitch, because the word now brings power to a woman instead of anger. learn to use it as a compliment and not a threat.


norprin5 55M

3/16/2006 11:48 am

keep on bitchin'!

King Nor XVIII

Fallic40 53M
1858 posts
3/16/2006 6:42 pm

bitch is the term used by a weak individual when faced by a strong independent woman.

curious082385 31F
4925 posts
3/17/2006 5:56 am

Laughing at Fallic...I think he's got it right!

carebearluv2 42F

3/18/2006 10:20 pm

Gentle..how right you are..Fuck em!

Honest..I don't take it was a threat honey, I know powerful women have to be bitches in order to survive. Besides, we can't please everyone all of the time....

Thanks Nor, I think I will

Fallic and Curious..I couldn't have said it better myself!

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