don't go away mad....  

candycoated4u3 52F
113 posts
3/1/2006 6:41 am

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3/25/2006 5:52 am

don't go away mad....

just go away.

I got an e-mail from someone saying just tell me to go away if you are not interested.Ok I read what the person had to say and found that I was not interested. i very nicely told him, I am sorry but at this time you are not what I am looking for. I wished him well and bid ado. Then i get another e-mail asking me why I was not interested. Ok I'll explain. As I did and again wished him well. Now the 3rd e-mail comes, " you bitch" "you cunt" you this , you that. The childish name calling came on like a kid in a play ground. Ok a maybe a cunt but Im not his cunt. I maybe a bitch but again Im not his bitch. So why am I writing this? Ok here is why.
So many people sit and say " well I e-mailed 50 people and got nothing in return." They did not even say no thank you. Ok well I learned the hard way not to say "Im not interested" because people turn in to kids. With name calling, bitch slapping, and taking toys and going home. So why say "just tell me to go away" if your going to go away mad? Why not just go away?

sassybelle21 32F
13313 posts
3/1/2006 6:56 am

People are just that lame most of the times on here. Put them on block

jadedbabe78 105F

3/1/2006 7:07 am


This is why I don't reply to the ones I'm not interested in. I learned the hard way, too.

Doesn't matter how nice you are, some people can't take rejection.

downinlove2 53M

3/1/2006 7:29 am

thats what the block funtion is for, or you could report his ass to admin.

majordomobilly 47M
50 posts
3/1/2006 9:10 am

Unfortunately alot of the guys on here think that all women should be happy to sleep with them. I personally think that alot of the guys end up here because they are unable to get any women to even date them in the regular world. Some of these men (and I use the term loosely) need to look at the way they view women. Maybe if they thought of women as actual people instead of objects then they would have more success both here and in real life.
And as a side note about reporting the person to admin. (as downinlove2 suggested) I wouldn't waste my time doing that although this is a pretty good site, the admin here has proven that they aren't all that interested in policing their site and keeping the assholes away.
Hope you have some better success and fewer jerks in the future.... B

candycoated4u3 52F

3/1/2006 9:15 am

thanks for the great responses, Im glad to know im not the only one

tazzler1 55M/42F

3/1/2006 9:19 am

well i would say that some of these manchilds just dont know how to treat anyone and when theydont get what they want they become the 2 year olds that they are and hope that the tantrum the thro will get hem what it has always gotten them (IE there way) but the have to go up and unfortunatly were the ones that have to make them.

tazzler1 55M/42F

3/1/2006 11:08 am

also i would say that maybe a good way to say of your not interested would be to say that your currently seeing someone and want to see how it goes b4 you start with another untill then you will only chat in the chat rooms with those you know there. just my 2 cents

MyRealLoverOne 46M

3/1/2006 7:48 pm

I wonder if he has a problem with!

zaniest 72M

3/2/2006 9:49 am


I could not agree with you more. Nice job!

live4adventure9 64M

3/4/2006 6:17 am

actually candi dearest, I've had that problem in reverse. on occasion I send compliments or comments to lovely ladies that I find I'm endeared to, either in picture or in word, a nice something, not asking to meet or anything, and sometimes wind up with a comment from hell. lol, I've found there arent' allot on here that communicate too well. and that's sad. after all, how do we get to know each other? just block 'em and enjoy the rest......

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