Wise words  

candy69sosweet 61F
10901 posts
9/4/2005 4:17 pm
Wise words

I just read my dear friend blondeneedssex blog, and words she posted spoke to my heart. I hope you don't mind Blondie, I'd like to post those words here:

"If you go changing and rearranging yourself for another person, then you are no longer yourself. Have you not become a bi product or a mold of the other persons making."

That's what I did for the last two months. I tried to be the person my husband wanted me to be. I stayed away from here, and from the friends who make me feel happy. NO MORE! I gotta be ME!

Thanks Blondie, for reinforcing my decision. Timing is everything in life!

~Friendship is a gift given from the heart and treasured forever~

keithcancook 60M
17865 posts
9/9/2005 1:06 am

Ya gotta look out for #1 first. Those around you will usually benefit as a consequence.

GoddessOfTheDawn 105F
11240 posts
9/5/2005 1:39 am

isn't that just what peepz love about you.... the only way YOU can be YOU?

~ smilez ~


9/4/2005 9:36 pm

Sweetheart of course I do not mind. And knowing you are back has put a smile on my face, nice to know you are here walking the halls of blogland once more.

rm_mtnravyn 60M
890 posts
9/4/2005 4:53 pm

candy You reminded me of something Erich Fromm said "The whole life of the individual is nothing but the process of giving birth to himself; indeed we should be fully born, when we die. Although it is the tragic fate of most individuals to die before they are born."

Welcome back to the birthing process. I am new and haven't read all your blogs but these two certainly rang abell with me. Thanks

expatbrit49 62M

9/4/2005 4:29 pm

That happens all too often, people trying to change for someone else or someone trying to change their partner. It dosnt work, we are what we are, if people cant accept us for who we are then neither party is truly happy.

Thank You for Your Time and Attention

Become a member to create a blog