How do tell the husband  

butterflyshy73 43F
6 posts
8/18/2005 5:47 am

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How do tell the husband

I am Bi-curious. Never kissed a girl. I want to figure out a way to tell my husband and maybe get him involved with others etc. How did others approch there spouse with the ideal?

simplysex1976 40M

8/18/2005 7:03 am

My wife just went for it!! You will be surprised how it will more than likely go over. It was pretty obvious already through all the lesbian porn she stashed though!! LOL

EbonyonIvory69 44M/44F
1 post
8/19/2005 5:55 pm

I'd say talk about it, explore his fantasies and go from there... If it's something your interested in he'll support you. I don't know any men who would have a problem with their wife/gf trying new things sexually.....
Good luck

OkinawaJas 53M

8/26/2005 2:38 am

I asked my ex-wife what her thoughts were regarding a 3-some, either male or female. We talked and it opened more doors of doubt than doors of curiosity. She began to think she wasn't good enough for me because I had these thoughts.

rm_Jme681000 45M
29 posts
8/28/2005 12:02 am

hit him with the what if... R U looking 2 add her 2 Ur love making with him ... or just U & her ... problems
1. he thinks U want 2 set him up.
2. if it's just U&her , he thinks she's a he.
3. he could be the Jealous type.

I could probly list more, however U R married 2 him U should know the best way 2 use our advise and cum out on top... of him and her

reasure him that he's the 1 and she will be just that ... a curiosity thing, if it get 2 B a long term thing deal with it then...

U only live once, and when U run out of blood U'r dead.

good luck

rm_darkman3069 47M

8/31/2005 7:29 am

Well the way my girl went about telling me that she wanted to be with another female, she asked me if I would be upset if she brought home another female to play with, and then join in when I thought it was time for me to join in. I asked her who it was, if she had already talked to her about it, and how she would feel when the other female wanted me to fuck her? Well it worked out to where that we would go out together one night and the female was soneone that "WE" were both thought was attractive. So it might have to be a partner type of thing to make it work but you have to sit down and talk to your husband and tell him how you feel, and if this is what you want to try I am sure that he will agree with you and want to be apart of the fun.

rm_kamikazee85 31M

9/16/2005 5:58 am

well when i told my wife i was into guys she was really open about it and ended up telling me she was trying to figure out how to tell me she wants to try a woman, so in my case it worked out best for both of us. now we have a great sex life as well as a completly open marriage.
my suggestion is just be straight forward with him on an evening when neither of you have a lot going on so if he panics or has anything to say you can have a decent discussion about it.


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