i cant believe it...........  

buttercup28292 40F
153 posts
11/17/2005 12:26 pm

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i cant believe it...........

ok so right now im not happy. Once again I got stood up last night. Why do people do that? Why do I let it bother me? Why dont they just pick up a flippin phone and call? There is nothing more upsetting I think than to have someone call and tell you they are on there way. Then never show up. Hell im starting to think it is me. Am I ugly or something? I just dont get it. This site was supposed to be for people hooking up. Not fucking game playing. Or so I thought. I am serious about my profile and the things i say in it. WHy does it seem that i keep finding ones who arent??

playtime44uandi 52M
6545 posts
11/18/2005 10:23 am

Buttercup, sorry to hear about this. I pritty well know how you feel. Look your not unattractive. Your not a bad person. Its not you.
I cant speek for everyone, but I know sometimes poeple get nervous & dont know how to deal with it.
I also know there is nothing worse than not being told whats going on. Or why they couldnt pick up the phone. Or even send an email. All of us have high hopes on here. When its working its the best! When its not its truely painfull & makes you think of every conversation that you ever had. Trying to figure out what happined & when & why. You might figure out parts of it but you'll never figure it all out.
Move on to better things. There is someone out there that will make you happy.

~We'll Leave The Light On~

utbucky 49M
163 posts
11/18/2005 11:48 am

dont have an answer for you why someone would stand you up, other then there a moron. its not you, your a beautiful woman, seem to be very pleasant and caring. this site is for hooking up, but there are people out there that like to play the mind games with others, sad thing to do but it happens. like playtime said, move on to better things.

buttercup28292 40F

11/19/2005 10:21 am

Thanks for the replies guys. As i said i was pretty pissed off that day. I know better than to make a big deal about stupid shit. Life goes on.

utbucky 49M
163 posts
11/21/2005 12:35 pm

I dont think you was making a big deal about it, i think you just need to get it off your chest and let off some steam. thats what helps and nothing wrong with that. thats why we are here, for things like this, it does help to get whatever out and talk about it. Oh ya, next thing you'll be needing to get off your chest will be me, hope thats ok with you heehee

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