am i mean????  

buttercup28292 40F
153 posts
12/4/2005 1:42 pm

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8/4/2006 1:52 am

am i mean????

Ok so a few months ago me and the one i live with decided that we no longer want to be in a relationship. Mind you it was on agreement. When i left town for five days we both realized that we werent happy anymore. I guess sometimes it takes the time away to see that. So he knows im moving and has made repeated comments about it in the last few weeks. But today i bring home some boxes and he totally flipped out on me. Was i mean in doing that? Im tired of tiptoeing around the fact that im leaving. I tried to be nice and do shit when he isnt around but i gotta get it done!! So why did he get mad about the fact i brought a few boxes in the house? He has told me he doesnt want me anymore and i know for sure i dont want to be here. He tells me of a place that is accepting applications for tenants but then gets mad when i check it out. So i ask is it mean to go about and get my stuff done or should i wait till hes not around? I dont want to wait around forever. Im outta here and the sooner the better.

utbucky 49M
163 posts
12/5/2005 9:18 am

no its not mean, your leaving and he knows it. I think hes just mad at the fact the you are leaving and hes really not wanting you to go.
But, you have to do things when you have the time, no matter if hes home or not. If you know deep down that you truely want to leave, dont let anything bother you in doing so.

BROC817 44M

12/5/2005 4:48 pm

sometimes actions speak louder then words...he'll deal with it or do something about it !!!

playtime44uandi 52M
6545 posts
12/6/2005 5:55 pm

Sounds like he doesnt want you to go. Or hes just confused.
You know, sometimes even though you know things are going nowhere, its still hard on the feelings when you phisicaly leave.
Been there, done that.

~We'll Leave The Light On~

rm_Smile_My_Way 59M
1519 posts
12/11/2005 1:59 pm

It's not you hunny, he just has to control you. He's never going to be happy and either are you if you stay. He's not happy if you go and he's not happy if you stay. Get out before it's to late. If you stay it will just get worst.

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