My kinda woman......  

bustysexyredhead 51F
19 posts
3/7/2006 2:50 am

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6/15/2006 11:41 am

My kinda woman......

I was reading my mail this morning.....and got to thinking, What do these guys really want? My e-mails are all different in content and subject, some cute and friendly, others VERY to the point! So my question is....what do you think a gal is saying about herself by being here? Or what kind of female would you expect to find here?

latindreamsex 49M
93 posts
3/7/2006 3:14 am

Don't get discourraged by negative e-mails/annoying people.
There are plenty of decent people in here to more than make up for it.

rm_swtsemen 57M

3/7/2006 2:18 pm

I think that everyone is looking to hook up

rm_wayne7554 50M
1 post
3/9/2006 6:41 am

I think everyone is looking for something different. I believe there are a lot of ads, especially female, that are scams and want to lure you to other pay sites or to get you email. There are, however, a few people on here who are truely looking to fill a void in there life. Some single, some attached or married. It is the latter that take the most badgering. I don't judge anyone on here. If they are here and are legit, I believe they are missing something in their life and this is the only place to go where you can find other people looking for the same things as you. Beware of the guys that jump right to the punch, there's probably more trouble than not.

rick195795184 59M
4 posts
3/19/2006 4:03 am

A girl that is out here may be just curious. I think that females are still looked upon as not supposed to be sexually expressive. But on here guys (and gals) love it. Its just a shame the assholes on here ruin it for the good ones (like me...Teehee). So keep watching, flirting, making chat friends, or whatever floats your boat. Just be careful and weed out the bad ones and enjoy. If it ever comes to pleasure time for real, be picky and just let go!!!!! Muah!!!!

rick195795184 59M
4 posts
3/19/2006 4:07 am

As for what kind of female I expect!!! I expect honesty. And of course that is rare. But I have met a few that have been awesome!!! And that makes sifting thru the crap OK!! Good luck!!

rm_NiceShoes31 49M

3/19/2006 5:02 am

I think people are looking for something to make them feel special. Something that makes life exciting, to the point of making a voice shake, or a pulse race.
I'm new to the online scene myself. It's different and exciting. That makes life more interesting and fun.


rm_dsb565 51M

3/20/2006 5:41 pm

What do I think a gal is saying about herself by being here?
Well, I think she is just being human.
I know in my case I have been on the dating sites for a while and find a lot of dishonesty. Between work and the rest of the stuff that got in the way the last few years I haven't dated much. Like everyone else I am human too. So when I ran across this site I decided to give it a try.
The type of woman I would hope to find would be at the very least a friends with benefits situaton. Ideally someone with similar interests that might like to have some fun by heading out for a ride in the country or going and watching a movie then later finding a more secluded place to enjoy each other a little more.
Does it have to be serious? No. Would I mind if it ended up that way? No.

rm_newtosc1970 46M
1 post
3/25/2006 7:07 am

dont mind the shallow people they come and go if you are happy here then I say screw them get it gurl .thanks mike

rm_nightfroggy 44M

4/4/2006 4:57 am


I think there are loads of different people here, starting with loads of fake profiles (not worth elaborating).

I reckon the girls on here are either desperate, bored at home or just happy with their sexuality and looking for more experiences.

Just because you may receive unpleasant/abusive emails just means that some guys are respectful, some just ignorant and plain rude. Just ignore them.

Oli x

rm_TallRdHd71 45F
1 post
4/4/2006 6:07 pm

Speaking as a happily married woman myself, I would have to say that yes, I was filling a void by being on this site. Not the void that everyone would expect tho. I was looking for a bit of socialization. I find that being a stay-at-home mom, I don't get out of the house as much as I would like. I find that this site is almost like going to a bar, without leaving your own home. It's great... I love it... I don't think I'll ever leave! Pack my bags, I'm moving in!!

jasper19772006 40M
1 post
4/6/2006 3:50 am

the question should be how do we feel about ourselves on this site if we know who we are and what we are here for nothing else should matter.

35forlife 52M

4/13/2006 1:47 am

I think you're sort of just like some of the men in here (me), no time in your busy day to really go looking for what you want so you take the easy way out of your frustrationof lacka (lack of sex) you use the web.

rm_funluv16 51M
7 posts
4/22/2006 7:25 pm

not sure what u r looking fo but I would love to chat with u to see.
oohay funluv_3

retirednotdead5 73M

4/27/2006 6:19 am

I recently retired and looking to add a little spice to my life. I read the stories and wander how many are true. According to those I have led a very boring life. Just maybe it will change. LOL

aminmale 40M

6/19/2006 8:21 pm

I have met some good friends on this site... some have let to more. I would expect a girl on here to be shy, curious, not the type that would do this at a bar. Maybe she is looking for something new.. maybe she is just looking to see what guys are looking for. I think anyone who will post an add like this should be commended on their bravery and willingnes to step outside their comfort zone. I guess I just wish more women would feel so inclined.

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