yup - still alive  

bullseyetou 63M
119 posts
1/24/2006 6:45 pm

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yup - still alive

Haven't been writing a lot lately - my life got more complicated grrrrrrr.

I now have a room mate, house mate or whatever you want to call it.

Hopefully it won't last too long but its here for now.

Sister's kid found himself betwixt and between and Uncle Bull got called in to save the day. So now I'm cook and nursemaid for a 21 year old whos going on 16.

How to handle the little pain in the ass, wet behind the ears, lazy, sophmoric, dosen't have a job, lost soul ----- hmmmmmmmm?

So far I've had him split wood, wash dishes, and mop the floor. Still trying to cum up with ways for him to earn his keep and appreciate the value of a hard days work.

overall he really isn't a bad kid - but man does he need a lot of work and I'm short on patience.

Any suggestions?


yemanyah_returns 39F

1/24/2006 9:03 pm

Keep him active, I imagine. Household chores, "go for" duties --- anything to keep idle hands busy. Perhaps he'll open up to you about what's going on in that head of his.

You're a good man for letting him in your home, Uncle Bull. He will come to appreciate it in his own way, I'm sure. But don't forget to give him a time line on how long he shoudl stay and some other basic parameters on what to and not to do under your roof. But you're a dad, this should be old hat to you now.

My best to you.

con carino y tenura dulce,

la Y


bullseyetou 63M
175 posts
1/25/2006 2:27 pm

Hi Yemanyah -

Thanx 4 stoping by . Lol theres a lot going on in that head of his, but then I'm not trained in psycho-analysis.

His mom is supposed to be changing her living situation soon and he will go there. Right now it just dosen't work 4 him to b with her.

On the whole he is an ok kid. Wild and disrespectful of his mom though. He fears and holds me in awe so that helps lol.

You have me at a disadvantage - I don't speak spanish. Would luv to know what u said at the end of your post.

The bad news is its tough to find any play time right now. Going to have to b creative.

tc Bull


yemanyah_returns 39F

1/26/2006 3:55 pm

con carino y tenura dulce = with care and sweet tenderness.

I have a cousin who sounds just like your nephew, with (in my nephew's case)va co-dependent-like mother to cover for his ass whereever and whenever, as if he could do no wrong. I hope your sister's situation improves. I hope he claims his life for his own instead of finding excuses not to.

BTW, that's a really cute pic you have of the child and the sumo wrestler. Where did you get is from?

Know that you are missed


bullseyetou 63M
175 posts
1/26/2006 5:48 pm

ty again Yemanyeh -
I think co-dependancy is a major issue in the nephew/mom situation. Like to see it more inter-dependent.

The pics are from a funny sports pic site I found. I have more and will probably post them when they fit a post - Or - you could cum by for a private viewing

Bull


yemanyah_returns 39F

1/29/2006 8:09 am

You're such a naughty, naughty boy, Uncle Bull. I like you even more.

Private sessions are available, BTW.


bullseyetou 63M
175 posts
1/31/2006 4:16 pm

lol Yemanyeh - I'll look forward to a private session then
Bull


bullseyetou 63M
175 posts
2/11/2006 3:20 am

ty Fly -

Welcum 2 the blog. Its panning, I guess. He's an ok kid sort of a misfit and in dire need of an adult male role model. More than that, he seems to really need some respect and assurance that he's ok.
So, although I miss my privacy (tough to find fun time) it'll work for a little bit. He fears and respects me so I don't get any crap from him and usually he helps out when asked. The biggest problem is listening to his television choices in the background, not too tough, but I don't understand the fascination with japanese cartoons.
tc Bull


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