Happy Valentines Day for those who hate today  

bullseyetou 63M
119 posts
2/14/2006 5:38 pm

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Happy Valentines Day for those who hate today

This is dedicated to the many singles and not so single but miserables out there tonight who are
feeling cheated out of something they think to be all important and special.

It ain't that special folks.

If your lucky you get to experience love once in your life. If your real lucky it happens two or three times.

But happiness is a state of mind, no other person can create that for you.

When we are happy with ourselves and confident in the life we create for ourselves (that takes effort) we become free to share a compassioned entanglement with another; hopefully one willing to share on the same level as yourself. Thats the seed of love. The rest is yet a lot more work.

In the meantime I offer you sincere friendship and expect the same in return. There is a mild form of love in that which fills the soul with warmth.

I have been single now for many years and find I actually enjoy my life as it is. I would consider a woman entwined in my day to day life to be a complication and a threat to the peace I have. It is a mental state I enjoy that I find myself in.

I have nothing against relationships - maybe someday I may try again, but I am very happy now. I will not give that up for something less in order to beat a periodic spat of loneliness.

In the meantime I enjoy female companions and a
casual approach to lifes little joys.

So in this spirit I wish each of you a Happy Valentines Day - If you are "in love" - the best to you in that effort. If you are not - enjoy what you have today, there may come a time you long for it.

Best wishes: Bull

DoubleDees38 48F
22 posts
2/14/2006 5:58 pm

Happy Valentine's Day to you...thanks for the advice...

saddletrampsk 54F

2/14/2006 7:21 pm

Happy Valentines Day to you also..love can come from many sources..

bullseyetou 63M
175 posts
2/15/2006 2:06 pm

DoubleDees - ty and welcum to the blog

Saddle - it sure can - what did you pick out for lingerie? I'm salivating here.

Divinity - ty - you have very nice eyes; window 2 the soul.

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