All Female Room
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Posted:Sep 25, 2006 2:20 pm
Last Updated:Oct 12, 2006 2:55 pm
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I noticed that a few female profiles are really men. I have gotten emails from females which turned out to be men. I go to the All Female Room sometimes, where there are often men masquerading as women, so I imagine that is where quite a few of them come from. I guess I am in the minority here. I see it as an all female room, whereas a lot of folks see it as a lesbian room. Now there are lesbians in there, both man-haters and women lovers, but there are also bi-sexuals and varying stages of bicurious women as well; I don’t see it as an anti-male room.
I often wonder why men masquerade to come into an all female room. I guess some get a sadistic thrill from harassing some of the women. Which is another thing, I don’t understand why folks engage in hostile banter with these folks when you have the ignore button. If you don't want to deal with a man, click the ignore button. Another reason men like to front in there is maybe they like the shock value, the surprise when a person finds out who they thought was a woman is really a man. Go figure.
Like most chat rooms, there are cliques in there that pretty much ignore anyone not in their clique, but I did talk to someone who immediately proclaimed her straightness but went on to say that she liked to watch females. As a matter of fact, the first thing she asked me was I straight. Since I am not into labels, I told her I have never been with a woman. That seemed to satisfy her somewhat so she continued to chat with me. I had my cam on but I was just chatting. From her comments about my body, I presume she had seen me cam before. She went on to tell me how masturbation was a no-no in her book. But it was obvious she was a little curious about it. AdultFriendFinder or my ISP was having problems so we got disconnected.
But I am sure I will see her again.
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Shaking My Head....
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Posted:Sep 15, 2006 4:46 pm
Last Updated:Sep 24, 2006 11:06 am
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Some of these guys definitely do NOT read the profile. I think they use the shotgun approach. I have gotten several emails from guys who live in distant states, suggesting we get together over drinks. Yeah, like I live around the corner.
I have gotten a few emails from couples and I sometimes surprised at how ordinary they look. Makes me kinda wonder about some of folks I know who I consider boring and drab. LOL
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The Slots
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Posted:Sep 10, 2006 10:33 am
Last Updated:May 29, 2007 3:15 pm
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I have been noticing the variety of shots that people have on their profiles as shown in the Slots. Aside from the cock and the cunt shots (general genitalia), there are the boob shots, assorted face shots, a few feet and leg shots, mouth and I have noticed an increase in eye shots. Men tend to go for cock shots, face shots or total body shots. Women tend to get into cunt shots, mouth shots, boob shots, eye shots.
I had my clit shot on my profile briefly but that was a bit much, even for me; however, it is ironic that I am particularly turned off by this pic of a female with her legs cocked open. probably because I am female. Probably turns the men on, and I bet it gets her lot of views though.
One of my favorite shots is of a blogger, his face is at an angle. Oh its not because of any personal interest, but I think it is a very penetrating shot. Even though it is of his whole face, the eyes are dark and seem to see into you. The vast majority of his commenters are female. I think between his aloof manner and this shot there is some appeal; women tend to like challenges.
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Brown Skin
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Posted:Sep 5, 2006 2:44 pm
Last Updated:Nov 10, 2006 11:22 pm
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Heard my song from one of my favorite artists, India Arie. These lyrics are so hott.
Brown skin, you know I love your brown skin, I can’t tell where yours begins, I can’t tell where mine ends, Brown skin, up against my brown skin, Need some every now and then, Ohhhh, yeahhh
Where are all your people from, maybe Mississippi or around, Apparently, your skin has been kissed by the sun, You make me want a Hershey’s kiss or liquorice stick, Everytime I see your lips, it makes me think of honey-coated chocolate Your kisses are worth more than gold to me I’ll be your Almond Joy, you’ll be my Sugar Daddy
Brown skin, you know I love your brown skin, I can’t tell where yours begins, I can’t tell where mine ends, Brown skin, up against my brown skin, Need some every now and then, Ooohh, Yeahhh
Every time you come around Something magnetic pulls me and I can’t get out Disoriented, I can’t tell my up from down All I know is that I want to lay down Everytime I let you in. Abracadabra magic happens as we spin Higher and higher, finally we reach heaven Come back to earth, then we do it all again Yeah, Yeah, Yeah
Brown skin, you know I love your brown skin, I can’t tell where yours begins, I can’t tell where mine ends, Brown skin, up against my brown skin, Need some every now and then, Ohhhh, yeahhh
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Two For One
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Posted:Sep 3, 2006 7:49 pm
Last Updated:Dec 21, 2006 7:31 pm
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I was checking out the cams the other nite. I was not really into watching men or women, so I decided to see what the trannies had to offer. As you would imagine, 99.9% of them were looking for men. But would you believe that there was one on there who was looking for girls only, he specifically said NO MEN.
That started me thinking.........
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Chat Room Critics...
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Posted:Aug 31, 2006 12:38 pm
Last Updated:Sep 3, 2006 4:20 pm
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I have been visiting several chat rooms of late. People, not just men, are so visual sometimes. I get a lot of attention if I am on cam, but no one even acknowledges me if I am not on cam. So unless I am showing, folks have nothing to say. Never mind that most of these folks aren't showing.
I have just been observing the dynamics of the rooms of late. Women can be very bitchy, some outright, some subtlely. I guess it is the attention thing, but is this chatroom attention that important? I mean I have really observed some snideness, and not just directed at me. I was in one room, where this lady was on cam and she was getting a lot of attention. Some of the regulars were protesting and saying that she should go to a WebCam Room if she wanted to do that; they became quite vocal about it. They even complained that she was bringing the quality of the room down. Personally I found that quite hilarious. Considering this is AdultFriendFinder.
Some folks take the lofty attitude that they "will not display their goodies", with the implied disapproval for those that do. Some of these disapprovers are the first to click on your cam to see if you are showing. I mean they wouldn't know if they weren't watching.
Some get off on phone chat, some get off on watching and some get off on showing. This is an adult sex and swinger site, after all.
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Sick of This.....
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Posted:Aug 30, 2006 1:10 pm
Last Updated:Dec 21, 2006 7:32 pm
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When I am camming, why is it all these folks want to chat with me and see my webcam, but have no webcam of their own? When I am in the public chat rooms, I will not go one to one if you are not going to cam, and I don't mean perform because I don't always, but let me see you. IF YOU JUST WANT TO SEE MY ACT..., CATCH ME ON AdultFriendFinder.
And then there are the folks who ask all these questions about whether I am a man or not. Short answer, I am NOT A MAN and if you don't like what you see, NOBODY IS FORCING YOU TO LOOK.
That concludes my rant for the day.
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Women Only Chat Room
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Posted:Aug 27, 2006 11:06 am
Last Updated:Aug 30, 2006 9:16 am
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Performing on cam for men is starting to bore me. So I went into the Women's Only chat room. Surprisingly there was only one other cam in the room. A few of the women were into phone chat or watching. I nipped a lot of that, when I asked if they had a webcam, most said no. So I told them there is no need to chat in another room. Now do n't get me wrong, I do chat one on one; but noone I met last nite made me want to do that. What is really starting to turn me off is how the men all feel the need to become directors. I never have reacted well to people telling me what to do....LOL...I guess my "audience" was a little bored with me because I found myself chatting more and I actually forgot the cam was on. Not because the chatroom was that interesting, but I just was not into performing, not my usual anyway. But of course there were those diehards who just had to hang in there to get a little peek. LOL I guess they said a little of something is better than nothing.
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Sex Site
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Posted:Aug 22, 2006 2:14 pm
Last Updated:Sep 3, 2006 9:59 am
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I was in one of my chatting moods the other night so I had my cam up but i was just chatting with this guy. Seems he was relatively new to AdultFriendFinder (or so he said), he had just joined, was a gold member but had no idea what type of site this was. He thought it was a regular vanilla dating site. But, funny, he knew how to get to the cams. He was looking for a submissive female. He also wanted to know if I had a mike.
Anyway, he was talking about the site and remarked that everything seemed to be about sex, wasn't anything else going on. Well I told him, this is a sex site.
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Cybersex
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Posted:Aug 19, 2006 6:30 pm
Last Updated:Dec 28, 2006 10:51 am
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I am an admitted exhibitionist. I love to perform on cam. But I cannot get into cam2cam or cybersex. I have no problem playing with myself and masturbating on cam to anonymous viewers. I guess I get lost in the moment or something like that. But when it comes down to one on one, cam2cam, it leaves me empty. I mean what am I supposed to do? Ohhing and ahhing is not me. Visual stimulation does nothing for me. Only in person will do.
Does that make sense? When it is anonymous, it is impersonal, but when it is one to one it is personal. I guess it comes down to my inability to get personal online. You are only real to me in person.
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Gotta Cam?
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Posted:Aug 14, 2006 8:57 am
Last Updated:Aug 27, 2006 6:16 pm
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My interest in camming is pretty much fizzling out. I guess my little experiment with exhibitionism is winding down.
I noticed something during my camming experience. A lot of the men that paged me had cams and they often asked to cam2cam. However, I usually got a few women observers (not counting the couples, although strangely enough, it was usually just the male half of the couple). By and large, the women never had cams and wanted to just watch. At least, that was my experience. Now of course it could have been because of the volume of men, it looked that way. Probably, a lot of the men didn’t have cams either. Or they were afraid to use them, being married and all.
This goes along with something I heard the other day. In the past, women have been mostly exhibitionist and men mostly voyeurs. It seems that more and more so, men are becoming exhibitionist, showing off their stuff, and women are enjoying watching.
I guess it’s that macho thing
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Can You Guess??
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Posted:Aug 12, 2006 2:08 pm
Last Updated:Nov 27, 2006 2:43 pm
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I came across some cock shots on the profiles; actually a guy had posted a new cockshot on his blog for comments. So I posted this. What ya think????
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